I discovered something that can make you feel like a star.
I was on the computer last night, just after finishing a conversation with a friend and client of mine I am doing editing for her first book. I popped into my computer a CD that I borrowed from the Toronto Public Library. The CD was a Michael Bublé one with the song “Come Fly With Me” on it. Read the rest of this entry »
The iPod piece which I originally wrote and had remixed for public radio a while back will now be published by an academic journal shortly. Since in the original I had included various commercial music snippets, I decided to record an edited version of my original piece again as it would have taken too long and/or it would have been too tedious a process to get music clearance for it. After discussing it with friends of mine trained in (and about to get trained in IP) Law, it made good sense to create yet another version of a remix. Read the rest of this entry »
We’re at the store. I get a sensorial overload from all the Christmas displays and turn to my iPhone for a visual break. My apps are all familiar to me, at least, and they never overwhelm me. Shopping’s overwhelming. I remember telling a friend of mine that, back in college, when I’d go out shopping with my close friends I’d manage to write a whole paper in my head during the time it took them to find what they were looking for at Banana Republic. Back to the store. I start texting. Read the rest of this entry »
Hello everyone,
The holiday season is underway and I have received a very special treat from one of my colleagues at Seneca College. Here it is:
It is a Charlie Brown Dance. May you enjoy all your moments of dance this Holiday Season.
Abba taught me a lesson this week. Read the rest of this entry »
I have a new book called Old Romance. You can buy it at: http://stores.lulu.com/kakonged. for $16.99. There is also a sale this month to get 20 per cent off when you enter the code HOHOHO. It is also available on Amazon Kindle.
It is a book about past romances I have had written in a creative non-fiction format. You will enjoy it.
It is a rather difficult task to pick the best albums of the year as I listen to a whole lot of music. However, here I go. Some of these musicians unfortunately do not get much (or enough) commercial radio time. However, they’re all brilliant performers. Read the rest of this entry »
By Kirk Verner
It was a wondrous Sunday afternoon in the middle of August when I was graciously given the opportunity to ride my very first horse. I remember being young, fearless, a cowboy for a day. Read the rest of this entry »
By Brikena Ribaj
You may here the audio piece here and you may follow along with the text attached below.
Gadgets have a way of making me happy. Switching to the iPod was the next natural step. The other gadgets were oh-so-20th century. That little gadget. My chosen box of possibilities. The iPod. Having in mind the theoretical approach of Judith Butler on gender I have long thought about how easily the iPod lends itself to being queered. Music precedes partners, relationships, most thoughts and sensations, even good writing. To me, at least. Read the rest of this entry »
Concord, Ontario – December 8, 2009 – The sky’s the limit in home décor for the coming year. That’s because blue is forecasted to be the hottest colour in the 2010 palette, says leading Canadian paint brand CIL Paints. Read the rest of this entry »
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Independent piece Dec. 5, 2007
By Roselyn Kelada-Sedra
Last Refuge of the Vaguely Talented: Interview with Paul Wells
With his words strewn all over the floor, I wait for the phone to ring. Today, I interview Paul Wells, columnist for Maclean’s, author of the bestseller Right Side Up, former political beat-writer for the National Post and altogether brilliant journalist. Anticipation has been building since I first made the contact, and I’m officially daunted. Read the rest of this entry »
By: Alex Young
Ticketmaster is the single largest concert ticket printer and ticket distributor in North America. The company’s control over the market for tickets to musical performances, sporting events and live comedy is unparalleled. Other than the short-lived anti-industrial revolutionary protest against Ticketmaster that was spear-headed by Pearl Jam in 1995, there has not been any large scale protest against the choke-hold Ticketmaster has over live entertainment in North America, until now. Read the rest of this entry »
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Dear friends,
Don’t forget to join us tonight, Dec 7 @ 6.30 PM, for a special Mantra meditation workshop with our visiting guest and travelling monk His Grace Vaisesika Dasa who has been practicing Kirtan Yoga for over 35 years. Join us for soul stirring Kirtan – It is a must have musical meditation event of the year! Don’t forget the yummy feast that awaits you. Check details and RSVP at http://urbanedgeyoga.com/index.php?d=current&p=current&event=miEvent2 Read the rest of this entry »
It is interesting that around this time of year, many people start to think about how they treat one another. It’s the holiday season and good cheer is supposed to be the norm. This is the not the case for everyone. Read the rest of this entry »
Another Lulu.com sales contest is underway! You can receive 10 per cent off all of my books and audio material by entering the code HUMBUG on checkout. This is a great time of year to buy a gift for the ones you love, and even buy a gift for yourself. Enjoy the magic of the holiday season with one of my 32 books.
You can select your books at: http://stores.lulu.com/kakonged.
TORONTO, Dec. 3 /CNW/ – As the anniversary to commemorate the Montreal Massacre draws near, Ontario nurses say the provincial government’s workplace violence legislation doesn’t go far enough to protect women. Read the rest of this entry »
As a teacher, I really admire anyone who goes to school. School is so important. It teaches you not only the basics about reading, writing, math and a concentrated area of study – it also teaches you a lot about yourself. It is a shame though that the cost of education often makes it difficult for some people to take the route of enlightenment. Read the rest of this entry »
VALCARTIER GARRISON, QC, Dec. 1 /CNW Telbec/ – The media are invited to attend a leg of the Olympic Torch Relay at Valcartier Garrison.
When: December 3, 2009, at 6:30 am (relay will begin at 6:50 am).
Where: Starting from Building 516 (Sports Centre) and along Général
T. L. Tremblay Street. Read the rest of this entry »
Dear friends,
We want to invite you to two extremely special events in the coming weeks. Read the rest of this entry »
The CRTC seeks input from Canadians as it undertakes an online consultation on the implications of implementing a compensation regime for the value of local television signals Read the rest of this entry »
“Let all the human rights organizations hear my voice and ask them to
save me from this inhuman environment.” Negar Azizmoradi
MONTREAL, Nov. 28 /CNW Telbec/ – According to a statement released today by the International Raelian Movement, Negar Azizmoradi, leader of the Raelian Movement in Iran, has become seriously ill with a severe lung infection while being held in Istanbul’s deportation center. Read the rest of this entry »
- Big birds, cool cats and cartoon celebrities entertain at Yonge-Dundas
Square -
TORONTO, Nov. 27 /CNW/ – A mob of teeny toddlers will descend on Yonge-Dundas Square for a fun-filled weekend of kid-friendly rides, face-painting, crafts and interactive performances at the Downtown Yonge BIA’s Kidzfest – a free two-day event with guest appearances from cartoon celebrities Max & Ruby, Dora & Diego and Spongebob Squarepants on his 10th anniversary tour. On November 28th and 29th, adventurous tots will swing around the square in a colourful swing carousel, whirl around on the ladybug ride and take their ‘coverkid’ moment posing in a faux magazine shoot. Harry and His Bucket Full of Dinosaurs pack prehistoric fun into the first performance of the weekend, followed by a slew of musical guests including David Archibald and Maggie G. Fun will ‘let fly’ with Birds of Prey on Saturday, and Jungle Cat World brings a rip-roaring good time to Sunday. Read the rest of this entry »
CALGARY, Nov. 27 /CNW/ – Canadian Pacific (TSX/NYSE: CP) and Natural Resources Canada have partnered on an industry-leading biodiesel fuel pilot project under the National Renewable Diesel Demonstration Initiative, announced Lee Richardson, Member of Parliament for Calgary Centre on behalf of the Honourable Lisa Raitt, Minister of Natural Resources, and Fred Green, Canadian Pacific President and CEO, today. It is the first time biodiesel will be used in Canadian cold-weather rail service.
FEATURE ARTICLE Five Ways To Shine As A Professional Writer By Dana Blozis With the growth of social media and marketing techniques like online article marketing, it seems that everyone is a writer of one sort or another. In fact, I've read a handful of articles that assure the reading public that anyone can write. While this may be technically true, those of us who write for a living know that it isn't as easy as it sounds. There is much more to the craft than meets the eye. Read the rest of this entry »
Living in Toronto is difficult without a car. With all of this H1N1 flu virus talk going around, you cannot even cough on a bus without someone thinking you have been infected. Plus with the way the TTC has been running over a long period of time now, it seems ridiculous that now TTC wants to hike up the fees to $3 CDN, from $2.75.
TORONTO, Ontario – November 17, 2009 – H1N1 is here and causing havoc at home and in the office. Ensuring employees can remain productive by working from home is a critical piece of any business continuity plan. Health Canada suggests that as many as 35 per cent of Canadians could become ill during the H1N1 pandemic. They recommend that if you feel at all sick or are infectious (with H1N1 this can be up to ten days after the onset of symptoms) you should stay home. Add to this time needed to tend to children who are sent home due to illness or school closures, and employees feeling well enough to work could be out of the office for days or weeks leaving offices understaffed and productivity down.
Donna Kakonge’s interview with Viktor Volkman and Tyler Tichelaar is featured on Irene Watson’s Reader Views. Check it out:
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Here is another great link to listen to a great podcast – featuring Donna Kakonge discussing journalism: http://www.bloggingauthors.com/
One of my former students from the joint University of Toronto Centennial program and Centennial College program has launched a new magazine. It’s geared towards the 20-something age group. You can find it here: http://www.20-something.ca/. Enjoy!
Happy Remembrance Day everyone. Let us not forget those who have fought or given their lives for our freedom.
Join us this week as we launch our Yoga lifestyle festival ‘InSpirit’ with Devamrita Swami from Nov 10 to 12. A Monk for 40 years, Yale graduate and author of several spiritual texts, Devamrita Swami is stopping over in Toronto as part of his world tour to take us through some not-to-miss workshops:
I have been thoroughly enjoying the Google themes for the Sesame Street anniversary. Sesame Street was a big part of my childhood with my brother and sister. It is wonderful that it continues on to this day.
On November 5th, 2009 Tyler R. Tichelaar and Victor R. Volkman spoke with Toronto-based educator and print, radio, and TV journalist Donna Kakonge about how any writer can successfully refocus their work into the freelance journalism marketplace. Read the rest of this entry »
I’ve been interviewed with Authors Access – where authors get published and published authors become successful. To listen to the show, visit:
http://authorsaccess.com/archives/163
I have discovered the glories of the Toronto Public Library thanks to my sister.
My first bike had training wheels. I believe my Mom bought it for me and I would proudly ride around my neighbourhood in Greek town with my Mom near by feeling free for my age.
Mark your calendar for our November events!
1. ANNUAL SOUTH ASIAN SYMPOSIUM: On Diabetes and Heart Health
Sunday, November 8, 2009
2. TORONTO DIABETES EXPO
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
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Toronto, ON – Urban Edge Yoga, a unique Yoga Lifestyle Centre, has opened its doors to the budding yoga community in Toronto. A grand opening event is planned on November 10 to launch its annual Yoga Lifestyle festival, InSpirit, featuring Devamrita Swami – A Monk of 40 years, Yale graduate and author of several books.
Dear friends,
Almost 15 days from now, Nov 10 we launch our Yoga lifestyle festival ‘InSpirit’ with Devamrita Swami, a Monk, Yale graduate and author of several spiritual texts. He stops over in Toronto as part of his world tour to take us through some not-to-miss workshops:
Mikel Guillen is the Director of Mahdi, Produced By PickPocket Media Films - Photo Courtesy of Mikel Guillen
The director of Pickpocket Media Films rings my doorbell several times and adds some knocks for emphasis. I know he is here.
Director Mikel Guillen - Photo Courtesy of Mikel Guillen
Coming up on Donna Magazine – Interview with Director Mikel Guillen from Pickpocket Media Films on his latest project.
Donna Kakonge Writes About the Plans She Has For an Upcoming Documentary - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
First of all I would like to thank the selection committee for taking the time to review my application. I would also like to thank those people who made the UHN documentary at the Toronto General Hospital Psychiatric ward possible.
Mangal-aarti Writes About a Spiritual Festival Coming to Toronto - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
Dear All
This winter, we bring to Toronto an exciting Spiritual Festival – InSpirit from Nov 10-12 with Devamrita Swami. He is a world renowned monk from New Zealand who has travelled to every continent of the world for nearly 40 years sharing his spiritual expertise and realizations.
Do Not Know is One of Donna Kakonge's 31 books - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
It took an old man to touch my young breast to wake me up. I did not hear him come up to me as I sat in a plastic waiting chair because my Walkman blasted “Keep on Moving” from my Soul II Soul CD. I was in concourse E of Miami’s airport, waiting for my flight to Barbados. I was coming from Montreal in the February winter wonderland and did not know how to dress. I wore a beige cotton knit ensemble with my black winter jacket curled over my arm. I was also wearing the burgundy slightly padded bra I got for Christmas from my sister. The old man had touched more foam than flesh.
Donna Kakonge Writes About Wife Abuse in School Works and Other Essays - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
Wife Abuses: Past, Present and Future
Any crime that happens in the home is easy to conceal from the outside world. Wife abuse is a dilemma surveyed in conservative numbers. It a more common crime in the home than society is willing to admit. But, what is wife abuse? Why does wife abuse exist? Will wife abuse exist in the future? What would it take to stop wife abuse? The answers to the above questions will be explored with a focus on a prediction of wife abuse’s future. The prediction is that there will be an increase in reported cases in 2001. (This was originally written in 1991).
Micheal is an Honest Person With Brown Eyes - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
Driven like a car on the highest gear, Michael zoomed through life to obtain his goals. He was a perfect student, a perfect friend; perfect at sports and his deep brown eyes made him an honest person.
Rachel Muenz Writes About Car Thefts - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
A little education can go a long way. It can vault someone into a higher-paying career, help people understand different cultures and keep them off the streets. It can also help reduce car theft.
Sarah is a Receptionist Who Works in a Tax Collection Agency - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
Sarah’s hair was too long and straight, that hair that came right out of a commercial prevented her from earning a living as a tax collector. She worked in her office as a receptionist, watching the men and women in three piece suits walk by her desk and only ask if there had been a phone call. Sometimes, when they weren’t looking she would call her friends and they would pick up her spirits.
Digital Journals and Numerology is One of Donna Kakonge's 31 books - Photo Courtesy of Dreamstime.com
Introduction
This book is meant to emphasize how powerful keeping a journal can be with the aid of numerology. I started writing one at the age of seven and keeping a journal has been a constant for me – more than some friends, some jobs and some family members. I used to get a thrill selecting my journals to write in. Now I have decided to try something new by using the computer that I already spend so much time on and money on to show how powerful keeping any journal…even a digital journal can be. Using the principles of numerology can also help in chronicling your life.
To buy this book, please visit http://stores.lulu.com/kakonged.
Rachel Muenz Writes About the Recession in Russia - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
For some dumb reason I thought Russia had been hit much harder than Canada in the global recession. On Oct. 13, I happened to be reading the Moscow Times and almost all the front page news was about the recession. Canadian papers, in contrast, haven’t had much about the recession on their front pages in a while.
Donna Kakonge Writes About Her Hair Journey - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
My first hobby was playing hairdresser to my Barbie dolls. I had my childhood in the 70s and 80s but I was not much different from Black children in the 40s who chose White dolls over Black dolls in a landmark study that lead to the desegregation of American schools. It was not that I liked chocolate skin over the cream of white colour; it really came down to the hair. I wanted straight, long, blonde, brunette or red hair, hair that blew in the wind and that I could toss over my shoulder. And when I could not wish it on my head, I used a towel instead.
Donna Kakonge Includes an Excerpt from How to Write Creative Non-fiction - Photo Courtesy of Dreamstime.com
Chapter One Forms of Non-fiction Writing
Welcome to your first chapter! As you go through each chapter you will be asked to complete optional assignments.
Donna Kakonge Wrote a Collection of Short Stories Called Spiderwoman - Photo Courtesy of Dreamstime.com
This is an excerpt from Donna Kakonge’s book Spiderwoman. It can be bought at: http://stores.lulu.com/kakonged.
One of James Valitchka's Nine Books is Superheroes Don't Have Dads - Photo Courtesy of JamesValitchka.com
By Rachel Muenz
James Valitchka’s writing has put him on an ambitious road.
Rachel Muenz Writes About Winter Activities - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
Back in January 2009, an article in the Toronto Star said Toronto should to do more to help its citizens love winter. The city should celebrate the cold and snow instead of complaining about it, the story said.
President Obama Wins Nobel Peace Prize - Photo Courtesy of Google
CBC reports that US President Barack Obama has won the Nobel Peace Prize for 2009. His leadership in international affairs and aiming to bring peace to troubled regions are counted as reasons for this prestigious award.
Congratulations President Obama.
Rachel Muenz Writes About Computer Gadgets - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
With winter on the way and a colder than normal fall already here, drafty offices can be a frozen Hell for any worker. But there are plenty of gadgets out there to help anyone stuck at a computer all day cope with the cold.
Rachel Muenz Writes About Healthy Cereals - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
You may have seen the Quaker Harvest Crunch commercials. The ones with the middle- aged dad using reverse psychology so his son and father won’t eat his Harvest Crunch. He tells them it’s “bad” for them with its fruit and nuts and doesn’t taste good.
Brikena Ribaj Does a Music Review
By Brikena Ribaj
I rightly talk about music a lot as it plays a significant part in my quotidianity. Most summers, thanks mostly to my intimate associations and friendships with those in the arts, I tend to spend a good measure of time learning about new music. Often I am asked how I learn about new music and just as often I answer quoting my musician friends as well as the publications I make it a point to read on a daily basis. Some daily staples include the Rolling Stone magazine, Spin, Black Book magazine, as well as iTunes around midnight on Monday/Tuesday. Much like all else, music takes time and discipline and its student needs to be willing to do the right amount of homework for it. And some music deserves more homework time than others.
Rachel Muenz Writes About Child Authors - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
It’s a common story: An author gets published at a very young age. For a few weeks, she is the centre of media attention, people rave about her talent, her book may sell well, but then she vanishes from the literary world, never to be heard of again.
Rachel Muenz Writes About Wind Power - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
Ontario continues to outpace other Canadian provinces and territories in the wind energy sector. The province has eight new wind power projects lined up, some of which are already under construction, according to the Canadian Wind Energy Association.
Kirk Verner Writes A Poem About Being Away - Photo Courtesy of Morguefile.com
by Kirk Verner
Wake up, wander the streets, wind stings my eyes,
I have forgotten what a real prairie breeze feels like.
Rachel Muenz Writes About Video Games - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
Storytelling in video games seems to be getting bigger and more important year after year. There are now professional video game writers who craft game stories as carefully as any novelist or scriptwriter.
Rachel Muenz Writes About End of the World Movies - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
If you’ve thought there have been a lot of movies about the end of the world coming out lately, you’d be right. Based on data from About.com, September has the highest number of films dealing with apocalyptic themes out of all 2009.
Rachel Muenz Writes About the Canadian Giller Prize - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
A couple of weeks ago, British Giller judge Victoria Glendinning bashed Canadian writing in the Financial Times of London. She said our stuff is too homogenous and that it’s easy to get grants and be published if you’re Canadian, no matter how bad your writing is.
Rachel Muenz Writes About the Financial Situation Behind H1N1 - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
Concern over the H1N1 vaccine is growing and Canada still doesn’t have effective legal protection for people if getting the shot results in injury.
Rachel Muenz Writes About the Impact Canada Has on the U.S.
By Rachel Muenz
There’s been a lot of talk lately about how many Canadian TV shows have been picked up by U.S. networks this fall. But while U.S. TV has the most Canadian content, Canadians are having a decent impact on other areas of U.S. pop culture as well.
Rachel Muenz Compares the Word Count of Stories Between Countries - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
Apparently, Canada doesn’t think its university students can handle long articles. Either that or it just uses language more efficiently than its U.K. counterparts.
Based on a random selection of five articles each from five Canadian online publications for students and five from publications in the U.K., Canadian articles are over 120 words shorter than those in the U.K.
Rachel Muenz Writes About H1N1 on Aboriginal Reserves - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
Many have said one good thing about the H1N1 outbreak in Canada’s aboriginal communities is that it has brought attention to the lack of basic needs they face. But, it’s doubtful anything will actually be done about improving living conditions in reserves across Canada.
The best from this online magazine is now packaged in hardcover, paperback and ebook format so you can take it with you anywhere. On the bus, in a canoe, wherever and whenever. Check it out at: http://stores.lulu.com/kakonged.
Rachel Muenz Writes About a Green Ontario - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
Ontario’s environmental services, retail, and professional services sectors have the largest number of companies using clean power, according to information from Bullfrog Power.
Rachel Muenz Makes Children's Book Selections For Adults - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
Often, people read books as children that they think are the best things ever only to be disappointed when they return to them as adults. But there some children’s books that, whether you re-read them or explore them for the first time as an adult, are still great adventures.
Here, in my opinion, are the best kids’ books anyone of any age can enjoy:
Rachel Muenz Writes About the Giller Prize - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
Canada has often been criticized for being too snobby about its writing.
William Deverell recently wrote in the National Post that in Canada “there is a push to reward insipid stuff that will never sell” and Canadian publishing is suffering because of this.
I partly agree.
Wally Bock Has His on Website on Writing Tips - Photo Courtesy of Wally Bock's Website
@ Copyright 2003, Wally Bock
Here are some books about writing that I really like. They are offered subject to the following qualification.
Over the years I’ve read a ton of books about writing. What I have not done is make a comprehensive survey of the literature on writing. I’ve read what looked interesting to me.
Rachel Muenz Writes About a Missing Person - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
There was this kid who lived in a town near where I grew up. He was a friend of my cousin’s cousin and went missing when I was in elementary school and he was a teenager. His friends might have called him J.J. so I’ll call him that too.
Rachel Muenz Writes About How the Media Portrays Rural Communities - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
Almost every article I’ve read in urban newspapers about the countryside and its people seems to rely on stereotypes. Maybe it’s just because I’m from a small town and more sensitive to these things, but media coverage of rural areas often appears condescending.
The Publisher Writes About Some of Her Days at the CBC - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
When I first started working in radio I had a lot of dropouts
Poor reception of radio quality on the reel-to-reel
I would bike down to the CBC building on Front Street with my red Yakota bike
That bike was “stoked”
The saddest thing was a light being stolen
Why can people be so mean?
Writing and the written word have been a major part of Trecia Harley’s life ever since she could remember. As a child she loved to read and be transported to another world. The magic of words was her main pastime growing up in Parry Sound, Ontario. Thus, writing became her favourite form of expression. Trecia attended the University of Toronto where she studied English Literature, History and Celtic Studies. She also completed a publishing certificate course at Ryerson Polytechnic University. “Throughout my entire education, I loved reading books, reading about the making of books, discussing the power of literature, and debating the need for it in daily life,” says Trecia. “To me, writing was, and will always be, THE ultimate form of connecting the minds of men.” This lead Trecia to becoming involved with The Breath, an online magazine. The Breath was the brain-child of two men from Toronto: Shane Belcourt (Anthony) and Jordan O'Connor. Shane and Jordan are musicians and artists in their own right in Ottawa. Shane and Jordan saw the early possibilities of the Internet and were excited by the idea of forming an arts collective site which would house an e-zine and independent Canadian record label. Shane and Jordan asked Trecia and her husband Craig to help out - and they were immediately hooked. Read the rest of this entry »Trecia Harley Does an Online Magazine - Photo Courtesy of Trecia Harley
Rachel Muenz Writes About Simple Writing - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
Every English teacher I’ve ever had has always said using plain, clear language is best in any kind of writing. Authors don’t make readers think by language that’s impossible to understand, but by the complex themes and ideas they write about.
Kirk Verner Writes a Lovely Poem About the Beauty of Caterpillars - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
As you blossom from a furry bug into a beautiful butterfly, I watch in amazement.
I think I like you both ways?
Your orange fur looks like skin.
Rachel Muenz Writes About the Anger of a Man - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
Dolphin was going to kill the dog because it had desecrated the tree. The tree was the most beautiful monument he had ever seen. He liked it because it reminded him of a snake and he loved snakes and though it was carved with the names of kids who’d been shot to death, it didn’t call them heroes and it didn’t call their killers evil. It simply remembered the dead and he liked that.
Rachel Muenz Writes About Murder
By Rachel Muenz
Stan hates Maude and her purple raincoat and the way she trips instead of walks. She even wears that ugly thing in middle of summer when the air chokes you and sits heavy on your head.
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Rachel Muenz Navigates Through Living at Home - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
In this tough job market and with a load of student debt to deal with, many college and university graduates like me have had to move in with parents to survive.
When I tell people I’m living and working from home, they always say something like, “That’s great! You must be saving a lot of money.” This is true, but I’ve found it can also lose you money as well.
Rachel Muenz Writes About Video Games Affect on Mental Health - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
It wouldn’t be surprising if the Nintendo Wii became an integral part of mental health therapies in the future.
Though Wii is mostly being used for physical rehabilitation and fitness in hospitals and nursing homes, it also seems to be gaining a place in the mental health field as well.
Bob Phillips was the editor of a bilingual newspaper in Aylmer, Quebec. This tells of his story as a sensitive man who tried to bridge the gap between two language communities in the place where he lived:
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Rachel Muenz Writes About the The Unusual Title of Songs - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
Going by its name, you’d expect Martha Wainwright’s song Bloody Mother Fucking Asshole to be an angry rant about a former lover with lots of screaming. But, it’s actually one of the most beautiful songs I’ve heard.
The Economy is Affecting Paint Colour Choices - Photo Courtesy of Gail Bergman
By Gail Bergman and Indira Tarachandra
Toronto, Ontario – September 1, 2009 – The economic recession is affecting more than people’s pocketbooks. It’s also influencing their choice and use of colour.
That’s the finding of CIL Paints, following a detailed study of colour trends by its international team of colour experts.
Cori's Newly Acquired Cell Phone Tells Quite a Story - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
One afternoon Cori found a token and stayed on for the whole route pressed to the back with her nose against the glass, watching the city leak out behind the red and white canister of people. Someone had opened a window at the front of the streetcar and the air chilled her throat all the way down to her stomach.
This is a public service announcement I did for the Ministry of Health and Long-Term Care. For more information about health, please check out my books Being Healthy: Selected Works from the Internet and Natural Beauty on my online store at: http://stores.lulu.com/kakonged.
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Heading down to New York with some old friends of mine from undergrad, we discovered that there was a lot more to black history than we knew about before:
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Here is a recording of a public affairs class I took while doing my grad studies at Concordia University. The main important information is at the beginning. For more stories by Donna Kakonge, visit her online store at: http://stores.lulu.com/kakonged:
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Cover Art for What Happened to the Afro? - Photo Courtesy of Dreamstime.com
Donna Kay Cindy Kakonge
Advisor: Dr. Martin Allor
Committee member: Dr. Kim Sawchuk
Outside Examiner: Dr. Lorna Roth
August 12, 1999
Afro Forever
Donna Kakonge Has Two New Books Published - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
The first book is My Mind Book which features an example of creating a book that will be inspiring and bring the things you want into your life. It is based on the law of attraction, as well as inspired by Mind Movies that were sent to me.
The second book is called Stories in Red and Yellow: Digging Up Work Done in Yesteryear. This is a literary collection of non-fiction and fiction work.
Both can be bought, as well as other books at: http://stores.lulu.com/kakonged.
The Idea of This Magazine is Truly an Original One - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
The question of copyright is a tricky one. I subscribe to Google Alerts and one of them is under the subject title of Donna Magazine. I have noticed two other Donna Magazines out there. What to do?
Everybody Does Something to Change Their Appearance for Advancement - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
The politics of black hair shows in books like Tenderheaded to the Princess of Wales plays ‘Da Kink in My Hair and Hairspray to movies like Beauty Shop to songs played on Flow 93.5.
Malcolm Gladwell is the Author of The Outliers - Photo Courtesy of Chapters.ca
I find I have been enjoying everything that Malcolm Gladwell writes. So far, I have read The Outliers, recommended to me by a former boss of mine. I have also read Blink and as I write this I’m listening to an audio ebook of The Tipping Point.
The information I have gained from Gladwell’s books has been phenomenal. His message of practice leads to perfect success in The Outliers is something that could inspire anyone. He backs up his arguments with terrific examples and it is these examples that is the key to his gift in storytelling and educating.
Whether you buy the books, whether you check the books out of the library as I have – read Malcolm Gladwell. I doubt you will be disappointed.
Rachel Muenz Writes that Lorian Has a Deep Love for His Dog Columbus - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert
By Rachel Muenz
Lorian sat in the sand, his lap cold without the dog. He glared at the black and silver points of the waves. His father had no right to get rid of it. But Lorian figured he should have seen it coming because his father had never gone out of his way to make him happy.
Cover Art for Random Bibliography of Media Books and Internet Resources
I have a new book out called Random Bibliography of Media Books and Internet Resources. It is meant as a study aid for students of media and a refresher for professionals of media. You can buy the paperback or download it for FREE at: http://stores.lulu.com/kakonged.
My hair obsession that has turned into a hair acceptance also turned into a book called What Happened to the Afro? Here is some video taken in Uganda in 1996 or 1997 of a braiding session going on in Kampala. You can buy the book at: http://stores.lulu.com/kakonged.:
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Robert Payne has Enjoyed a Life in the Limelight - Photo Courtesy of Robert Payne
Robert Payne has been a journalist for 40 years. He has worked in Quebec City, Montreal, Ottawa, Niagara Falls, London, ON and gained notoriety in Toronto, Canada where he now lives. In the early days of his career, he coupled his work at radio stations with being employed at Dominion stores while in the province of Quebec.
Paul Ng Addresses a Crowd with his Feng Shui and Geomancer Expertise
Paul Ng is a geomancer and feng shui expert that helps to improve the lives of others, as well as former corporate manager. He has worked with Ernst & Young that was the largest accounting firm in all of Canada at the time as a data processing manager. He has been vice-president manager of a subsidiary of Canadian Pacific called Marathon Realty. This was the largest company in Canada. He became a director at CIBC and then gradually owned his own company.
Gini Dickie is a Teacher and Activist who is Making a Difference
Gini Dickie is a teacher-librarian, as well as a political activist in her own right living in Toronto, Canada. She worked as a teacher in northern Nigeria with CUSO-VSO, she worked at Expo ‘ 67 and she has been active working with Chilean refugees. She has worked in the inner-city Regent Park area of Toronto, as well as with York University. She also owned her own typesetting business for a brief period of time and everything she has done has taught her about the world around her, as well as about herself.
Hyacinth Harewood Continues to Live a Full Life - Photo by Donna Kakonge
Hyacinth Harewood is a civil servant with the Canada Revenue Agency (CRA) working from home, former college professor, former businessperson, former volunteer and mother of five living in Toronto, Canada. She worked as a sessional lecturer with Carleton University in Ottawa, as a professor with Algonquin College in Ottawa for 16 years, has been working with CRA since the late 1980s, and once had her own sole-proprietorship business focusing on communications and written work. This consummate professional used to get up at 3:00 a.m. to work on her business, and then take care of five children to get them ready for school. She would continue working on her business while her children were at school and tend to their needs once they were home. She played the role of a superwoman well. This impressive woman who was educated at the University of Western Ontario where she studied French and Spanish, then received her master’s degree at the University of Ottawa in applied linguistics managed to juggle a life of work, family and children. She has been a terrific role model for her five children.
Book Review of Toni Morrison's Award-Winning Book Beloved
Terry Otten suggests that while Sethe and the other slaves “might be considered simply victims in slavery, once they move towards freedom north of the Ohio River … they assume responsibility for their own ‘criminal’ act and become `victims’ of their own flawed humanity as much as the viciousness of whites.” In this essay, the validity of this statement will be tested against Beloved. References from the novel will show how Terry Otten is incorrect.
The Color Complex is a Book that Discovers Some Blacks Obsession with Colour - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert
Too many blackfolks are fools about color and hair.
-Mabel Lincloln, interviewee in Drylongso: A Self-Portrait of Black America, by John Langston Gwaltney (1)
The Color Complex mentions the references made to skin colour in Spike Lee’s movies such as School Daze and Jungle Fever. Is hair one of the factors that lures many Black men like Flipper (Wesley Snipes) in Jungle Fever to white women? Why is it that it seems like the more successful a black man is he will have a white woman as his wife or girlfriend? Do black men have more a complex about colour and hair than black women do? Is this evidenced in the fact that fewer black women marry outside of the race and MAY feel more comfortable marrying and dating men darker than they are?
Struggling Schizoprenic Mother Tries to Make it on Her Own - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
Uneven rows of umbrellas bobbed towards her. Their metal frames frightened her to the edge of the sidewalk and then back into the alley against the cold dumpster. The thin spokes reminded her too much of wing bones. Her fingers dug at the air around her knees. She looked down and jumped, shocked to find nothing there.
Jean Toomer is the Author of Cane
I came across this book for three dollars at a Lebanese restaurant in the McGill ghetto of Montreal. It was worth every penny, and proves that you can find good books for affordable prices.
The Inkwell is a Movie Where Hair Dynamics Play Out
Set in 1976, this movie features the staple afros, braids and other various styles of black hair at that time. The interesting thing of note is that the family of Drew Tate, the main character in the movie, is depicted as working class and activist. The father wears a Black Panther beret and his sister-in-law calls him “Black Panther”.
Varda Etienne is now a Host of a Radio Show in Quebec
As she bops and moves looks real pretty and talks a fast game on Canada’s French music station, Musique Plus, Varda Etienne, 27 and a VJ, works on two shows: Bouge (the highest rated show on Musique Plus) and Groove. She does not like music that lacks movement, but, she has other things on her mind.
“What bothers me is how corrupted the world is today,” she says.
Stephen Marshall Traveled Around the World for a Video Magazine - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Mary Luz Mejia and Donna Kakonge
He’s been dubbed “guerrilla film maker,” “boy wonder” and “video artist” – titles he doesn’t seem to mind and takes in stride as he charges toward the goal: “to establish and alternative universe to that of broadcast television.”
Afro Almost Plays Dice With Her Life - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
I was embarrassed to tell my boyfriend’s parents I was out of work again. It had been a year and I was on welfare, but at least I had love in my life. Richie, my boyfriend, just got a job as a public relations officer at the University of Toronto. He had been looking for a long time and was feeling lucky. When his parents came into town one mild January weekend for his birthday, we all decided to go down to Niagara Falls to the casinos. Gambling had never been my thing, but going was the only present I could afford for him.
Rachel Muenz Writes About Finding a Good Home - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Rachel Muenz
I don’t like cleaning because it’s not something where you use your head and when I don’t use my head, it wanders into things I’d rather forget. But I don’t like living in filth either. I’ve had enough dirt in my life as it is. So that’s why I’ve got my fingers down the bathtub drain and the smell of Vim burning the inside of my nose. I find the piece of hair and pull. It keeps coming and coming, a whole ponytail slimy with old shampoo.
Happy Holiday Canadians! - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
Happy British Columbia Day! Happy Heritage Day in Alberta! Happy Civic Holiday! Happy New Brunswick Day!
Have a Safe and Happy Holiday Canadians!
Rachel Muenz Writes About Politicians in Comise County as Parody - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Zema Luncher
North Comise County politicians are disgusted with recent suggestions for the storage and use of garbage at Site 52. Protestors say a landfill is not the best option for the site and there are other methods that would be better for people and the environment.
“We could use one of those new-fangled methane things,” said protestor Shawn Ottens. “Yuh know, like they use over in Europe.”
Rachel Muenz Writes About a Character That Loves Garbage in Part Four of Her Series - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Zema Luncher
Charlene Rawston used to love garbage. Instead of keeping it in bins or in the garage, she kept the bags in the living room where she could talk to them and share stories. When Site 52 was first proposed she wholeheartedly supported it, happy that other bags like her close friends would finally have a proper home. But then the protestors came and everything changed.
Rachel Muenz Continues With Part Three of Her Series on Garbage - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Zema Luncher
Protests at Site 52 are putting a severe strain on the financial ecosystem, damaging the habitats of taxpayers and politicians, says Comise County Warden Tom Gudgeon.
Blockades at the proposed dump site in Teeny Township are not only harming these species but the protestors as well, he added.
Hyacinth Harewood's Poem Asks So Is This It? - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert.com
By Hyacinth Harewood
I’m a parasite on an interminable past that will outlast my gourmet greed,
I’m Tantalus in consummation, never stopping eating – under the curse of my past.
Yesterday’s spices drive me to wishing wells of the future that never fulfill water,
Not a drip from the cup to the caking lip.
Come tomorrow ….
Tomorrow never comes,
Intercepted by an interfering today.
Protests Rock the Small Township Over Garbage - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert
By Zema Luncher
Local politicians are starting to fear for their lives as protests to the dump site in Teeny Township heat up.
Comise County Warden Tom Gudgeon said people have been sending more and more letters of concern about the dump every day.
“My email inbox is always full so other important messages aren’t getting through,” Gudgeon said. “It’s also very painful on my eyes to read them all.
Citrus is Just One of the Many Flavours of the Shea Butter Market Lip Balm Products - Photo Courtesy of SheaButterMarket.com
Christen Bennett, in her early 30s, is a family friend of Gifty Serbeh-Dunn, owner of the Shea Butter Market company. For a time while in Ottawa, Serbeh-Dunn lived with Bennett’s family. Out of friendship and a deep belief in shea butter, Bennett tries to promote the Shea Butter Market products in the Ottawa region.
Rachel Muenz Does a Parody on a Dumpsite - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert
The plight of North Comise garbage: Part one of a five-part series
By Zema Luncher
In homes across North Comise County, the garbage bag is kept hidden from sight in cupboards or garages, unable to socialize with the families it lives with and treated as less than the family dog. After a week, it is stuffed into a bin and left for hours until it is hurled into a truck for a long, crowded journey to an even more crowded landfill. Here, it is dumped in piles with thousands of other bags, left to be torn apart by seagulls, crows and other scavengers, never knowing the taste of clean water or the smell of fresh air.
BC Woman's Favourite Shea Butter Market Product - Photo Courtesy of Shea Butter Market.com
A 71-year-old woman in British Columbia (who preferred not be named) loves the Shea Butter Market products that Gifty Serbeh-Dunn owns. “I love them,” she says. “I’ve used pretty well everything that she’s had out. First of all I’ve used her shea butter and the moisturizing cream and the body lotion and the foot cream.”
Ethnic Newspapers Can Help You to Discover Many Things - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert
Suggested Publications
*Aboriginal Voices
$45/2 years
-geared towards examining Native North American culture
*Atin Ito
$30/year
-Filipino publication has one of the highest circulations
*First Perspective
$24.95 – $26.70
-a national newspaper highligting a variety of events concerning Aboriginal
people
-also notes political events and issues
Paul da Silva and Donna Kakonge Worked on a Creative Concept Called Listen'in - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert
A proposal for a thirteen part series exploring issues of race,
culture, and identity. The series will provide a forum for discussions on these topical issues through a Documentary approach as well as through discussions in an informal, and relaxed setting amongst people who are both well informed and passionate about these issues. The setting could be in a community, a cultural setting.
Larenz Tate is the Star of the Movie The Inkwell - Photo Courtesy of Starpulse.com
Set in 1976, this movie features the staple afros, braids and other various styles of Black hair at that time. The interesting thing of note is that the family of Drew Tate, the main character in the movie, are depicted as working class and activist.
Brikena Ribaj Reviews the Movie Bruno
By Brikena Ribaj
A screening of Brüno (2009) in a German-speaking setting is one thing. A screening of it somewhere else is something else.
I explain.
As a German speaker, I have a healthy list of reasons as to why this film vexed my ears. The whole grammar thing does a number on me. File it under occupational hazard.
Brikena Ribaj Comments on Lost in Translation - Photo Courtesy of IMDB
By Brikena Ribaj
Sofia Coppola’s Lost in Translation (2003) is another good Fall title for me. It takes place in Tokyo and the most relatable bits in the film are Charlotte and Bob, the two main characters, exploring the busy, urban streets of Tokyo together, thus sharing their isolated togetherness and bonding in a place where the leading currency is utter linguistic unfamiliarity and unequivocal confusion.
A Rookie's Story is Told by Rachel Muenz - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert
By Rachel Muenz
Jo Henday, Sister:
I should be proud of you but I’m not. Not of a single shot.
Your first goal came off my stick, remember? The puck was pinned to the boards by a couple pairs of skates and there were five of us from both teams working at it in a clatter of wood. Some kid kept cross-checking me in the back – no penalty – but I fought my way through the press of jerseys and dug the puck out. I flung it towards the net because I knew you were there.
EPRI Did a Revealing Study on Electricity - Photo Courtesy of Stockexpert
A study by the Electric Power Research Institute (EPRI) has found the replacement of fossil fuels technology with electric ones would result in energy savings. The energy savings are as high as 71.7 quadrillion BTUs.
These savings would cut CO2 by 4,400 million tons between 2009 and 2030.
Roger McTair Creates Magic - Photo Courtesy of Seneca College's Website
Roger McTair is a director, poet, professor and writer who lives in Toronto, Canada. He has had short stories air on CBC Radio and BBC Radio.
He was born in Trinidad and Tobago on October 7, 1943. Not having much to do while growing up galvanized his love of creating things.
Brikena Ribaj Comments on the Pet Shop Boys
By Brikena Ribaj
I often refer to the music-loving Socrates as Nietzsche portrays him in his work Birth of Tragedy. Music is the best form of language, per Socrates. And I concur fully not just because it is Socrates’ attitude per Nietzsche but because I happen to share the same attitude experientially. So, those who get mad over not getting showered with attention when music is playing an active part in the discourse need to, well, find other ways to cope.
Brikena Ribaj Does a Review of Todd Hayes
By Brikena Ribaj
I don’t think one chooses music. I truly believe it chooses one. I was asked recently why I’m such a fan of indie music. I remember saying something like, ‘well, I suppose I was born that way. Or something. It’s one of those truths, you know? You just know it. Sort of like knowing your name, you just do, you know?’ The awkward-sounding answer made full sense to me. Can’t say the same for my interlocutor.
Brikena Ribaj Ponders on Puns - Photo Courtesy of Morguefile.com
By Brikena Ribaj
Tip of the hat to Chris for the pointer. He and I have such a great time together playing with language. I thought I’d share with you all what he just sent my way.
Enjoy. And as a medievalist, my very favorite would have to be number one.
Brikena Ribaj Reviews the Musical Work of Camille Nelson
By Brikena Ribaj
This is Camille Nelson, my very good friend.
Camille Nelson is one of my all-time favorite people. Among so many other things, she is also an artist par excellence. Camille is also the one who patiently taught me how to play the guitar, the one with whom I’ve had many an adventure over the years, and the one who simply excels at all she does. And she manages to do it all by being unapologetically good and quintessentially Camille.
Rachel Muenz Explores Bicycle Time in a Short Story - Photo Courtesy of Morguefile.com
By Rachel Muenz
The road unrolls before him, cracked and purple-grey. The pavement is worn but good, better than that behind him, cratered and half-repaired with uneven disks of tar. On either side, trees slide past the corners of his eyes, their branches reaching for his arms. Beyond the trees, the hunched forms of hills, shadowed and filmed with pale green, rise and fall. He feels the hum of the tires in his chest, right through to his heart. It is pure joy.
Brikena Ribaj Loves Portland, Oregon - Photo by Brikena Ribaj
By Brikena Ribaj
One of the reasons I love Portland, OR, well, other than it being home to the best bookstore I have seen in North America, Powell’s, is how quiet it is.
Nick Goodwin Writes About 24 Hour Toronto That Can Help You Find a Late Night Snack - Photo Courtesy of Morguefile.com
By Nick Goodwin
Are you ever awake late at night and can’t find something to do? Sometimes people want to get out on a weekend but can’t find something creative enough to maintain their interest. This site is full of interesting places that you may not know exist within the city of Toronto.
Franz Ferdinand Concert - Photo by Brikena Ribaj
Franz Ferdinand is on tour promoting their new album Tonight with Franz Ferdinand. We saw them in concert last night and I am happy to report that they delivered. They performed for one and a half hours and the energy of the band was in harmonious synch with that of the crowd.
Nick Goodwin Knows that Being a Freelance Artist is For Him - Photo Courtesty of Morguefile.com
by Nick Goodwin
I think one of the hardest things about trying to be a successful artist is the reality that your ability to serve your community isn’t entirely practical. I have experienced many types of work apart from art-related jobs and they have helped me to become at least more practical than I would be had I decided to be strictly an artist.
Brikena Ribaj Rocks to Taylor Swift
By Brikena Ribaj
Today I rocked to country.
Yes. I did.
I rocked to country music.
The reason I say this twice is because, well, for lack of a better phrase, I don’t do country. I don’t know why. I just can’t. I am not attracted to it. I never was. While I’m sure that country music feeds many people, it doesn’t manage to feed me in any way. Not even with carbs. It’s a preference issue, you see. For example, I love Verdi, Wagner, Beethoven, and Mozart but I don’t care for Schumann. I love Indie rock but basically everything about Grunge bothers me. And, yes, Nirvana is an exception. Kurt Cobain is bigger than any genre. And I loved him. Very much. I still do. “Smells Like Teen Spirit” continues to be a high-frequency track. It’s not grunge, it’s classic. So there are exceptions within certain genres, of course.
The Remix Project Has Changed Nick Goodwin's Life
by Nick Goodwin
Just recently The Remix Project had a fundraiser at Circa nightclub for their “Give Money Make Change” campaign. At this fundraiser members of the project (including myself) were granted the opportunity to showcase their artwork at the event. I had three of my paintings on display at this momentous gathering. The Remix Project put together a great art show as well as a silent auction. The artists came through with beautiful photography, computer artwork, creative paintings, and more.
Nick Goodwin Adds His Own Designs to Clothing - Photo by Nick Goodwin
By Nick Goodwin
I love to create original clothing. I am a design guy. Not too long ago I took the time to hand paint a whole bunch of plain clothing that I picked out. For some of the garments I created stencils so I could reuse my choice of design. For other items I simply created something one of a kind.
Hypocrisy is Highlighted in this Essay by Co-Authored by Brikena Ribaj - Photo Courtesy of Morguefile.com
By Brikena Ribaj & Scott Bradford
Hypocrisy and the Lies of Time:
An Angelic Dilemma
Hypocrisy of Time
He is ageless, the hunter
With neither beginning nor end
Changeless, yet the father of all change.
His gaze is eternal
Without preference or guile
He loves, yet loathes all.
And…thus…Cassiel…falls…
This is the Cover Art for the Book Spiderwoman - Photo From Dreamstime.com
Spiderwoman is the third book that I officially published, actually the fourth if you include the short story I did for Headlight Anthology. This book was a long process that started with stories I did in a Carleton University creative writing class with Tom Henighan. You can buy the book at: http://stores.lulu.com/kakonged.
Nick Goodwin Writes About Happiness Being Shared - Photo Courtesy of Morguefile.com
By Nick Goodwin
One thing that I believe in is that happiness is most real when it is shared. It is the good and truth of understanding between two individuals. All of life’s greatest joys are based around a perceived connection.
Cover Art for Listening to Music By Donna Kakonge - Photo Courtesy of Dreamstime.com
By Nick Goodwin
My best writing is done while listening to music. Music is my vice and my motivation. My parents are the reason why I love music so much. They used to take us on car trips when we were young. Every car ride with my dad we would listen to music on the radio or tapes. He would ask “Who’s this?” to quiz us and we would listen even more carefully to try and figure out who the artist is.
Nick Goodwin Comments on Toronto's Garbage Strike - Photo Courtesy of Morguefile.com
By Nick Goodwin
Okay, so Toronto’s morale doesn’t seem to be out of whack at all. Maybe a little unfocused but somehow people are remaining happy even with the increasingly gross trails of garbage leading from overflowing containments. Are we to improvise and use our creative minds to construct this trash into something we can all gawk at? We need to come up with something.
This is the Cover Art for the Book The Write Heart - Photo From Dreamstime.com
Can you imagine that I am offering free life coaching on any of your life’s challenges for the low, low cost of one book sale from you? Yes – this is not a gimmick – it is true.
We can do the life coaching through email if you are long distance, or we could do it over the phone if you are local. We can also use such services as MSN and Yahoo Messenger if you prefer a more instant approach to the life coaching. I look forward to hearing from you. Make your dreams come true!
Nick Goodwin Says You Should Treat Others How You Want to Be Treated - Photo Courtesy of Morguefile.com
By Nick Goodwin
What is honourable? My idea of honour is living by a code of unconditional love and trust. I also feel honourable when I practice my abilities as an artist and express myself honestly. I don’t believe in a good defense or offense. Life isn’t a game, after all.
Rachel Muenz Writes About Muttlucks for Dogs - Photo Courtesy of Morguefile.com
By Rachel Muenz
They protect your feet from extreme cold when playing in the snow. Military personnel use them to keep the pads of their feet from burning up on the hot ground of Afghanistan. Broken glass and other hazards won’t hurt you because of these boots. You are a dog, after all, and you don’t always pay attention to where you’re walking whether you’re just fooling around or saving lives.
Discovering Appreciation Can Be Difficult in Our Busy Lifestyles - Photo Courtesy of Morguefile.com
By Nick Goodwin
Sometimes the hardest thing is being able to appreciate something when you know you have it the best. People can be insatiable and often the truth is that you don’t know what you’ve got until it’s gone. If people could appreciate the “now” to a greater extent they could be more conservative, creative, and intelligent.
Nick Goodwin Does a Review of a Website - Photo Courtesy of 1LoveTO.com
By Nick Goodwin
A couple of friends of mine have put together a great website. It is a blog website which showcases Toronto’s arts and entertainment, as well as culture and cause.
The Simply People Festival is Happening on July 21st - Photo Courtesy of Morguefile.com
Simply people was formed about five years ago after forming CANWAPPS. CANWAPPS stands for Canada-wide Accessibility for Post-secondary Students. This is a national non-profit organization that is geared towards increasing accessibility and inclusion for post-secondary students with disabilities.
Feeling Inspired Can Sometimes Be an Effort - Photo Courtesy of Morguefile.com
By Nick Goodwin
I know what it is like to feel uninspired. Sometimes the only option is to channel this frustration and use your strength of mind. Create an opportunity for moving forward with something. Sometimes you won’t find the inspiration you’re looking for until you try something first. I’ve heard it said that experience comes from making mistakes, trial and error. If people did everything right on the first try we would have no need for communication.
Have a Great Canadian Day - Photo Courtesy of MorgueFile.com
Happy Canada Day Everyone!
Nick Goodwin is Discovering Muay Thai Boxing - Photo Courtesy of MorgueFile.com
By Nick Goodwin
I have begun researching the art of Muay Thai boxing. The reason being is because I have been given the opportunity to create a mural on the wall of a soon-to-be Muay Thai boxing studio. The Remix Project has given me the opportunity to help with the creation of this mural.
So far, I have learned a few basics in regards to the history and importance of Muay Thai boxing. Muay Thai was born in Thailand. The practice of this fighting technique dates way back to a more primal time. It was originally formed as a technique that the people of Thailand could use to defend themselves from neighbouring countries that had the intentions of invasion. One of the most unique factors is that the techniques of Muay Thai have always been passed on orally rather than through documentation or written instruction. There are few written records.
Muay Thai is a large part of Thai culture. Even in times of peace, the military leaders encouraged the practice of these self-defense techniques. In this cultural environment many people choose to make a living through Muay Thai competitively. In some cases of poverty it is some people’s last resort of survival.
Like any sport, over time it has evolved and become a little safer and more commercial. Still, Muay Thai boxing is a part of the Thai culture that continues to affect the whole world.
I am excited to post more details on this subject as my knowledge and experience increases.
Rachel Muenz Discovered There Are Special Shoes for Ninjas - Photo: MorgueFile.com
By Rachel Muenz
Most people in Toronto put on high-heels, polished oxfords or running shoes when they go to work. Matthew Wright puts on a pair of tabi.
Tabi are a traditional type of shoe worn in Japan mainly for festivals and are essentially like mittens for your feet, keeping the big toe separate from the rest of your toes. They also happen to be the favoured footwear of ninjas.
Wright has been making training tools and fixing swords for people who practise ninjutsu for about three years.
“I’m very lucky with my profession that I get to say I’m a full-time professional ninja,” he says. “It’s very awesome.”
He says he finds wearing regular clothes strange because he is used to wearing his ninjutsu uniform all the time at work.
“When I go out, I feel I’m putting the costume on. I put the jeans on. I put a shirt on and I look in the mirror and I think I look very funny,” says Wright, who has practised ninjutsu for two years. “I don’t put Gators on, I put my tabi on.”
The shoes look cool but there is more to them than that.
Greg Tremblay, a full-time ninjutsu instructor at Kageyama Dojo in western Toronto also wears tabi every day to work. He says these unique shoes give a ninja’s balance a boost with their split-toe design.
“The big toe is absolutely of prime importance for balance,” Tremblay says, tugging on his own toe that is poking through his well-worn tabi. “It’s where all your balance comes from and so having that toe separated from the rest of them adds to that feeling of balance.”
You wouldn’t think so, since the cotton tabi tend to slip, but this actually helps with a ninja’s training, says Tremblay who’s at the rank of seventh dan in ninjutsu and bears the title of Shidoshi.
With Canada’s icy winters, training with tabi help simulate a situation where you might be fighting on a slippery, snowy road, says Tremblay, who opened Kageyama in 1996 and has been doing ninjutsu since the early 80s.
The easy-slide fabric forces ninjas to concentrate on their balance instead of taking it for granted.
Wright agrees cotton tabi improve a ninja’s stability.
“They allow me to grip surfaces that are uneven,” he says from the beige mat in one of the dojo’s training halls. “I can feel the terrain so it allows me to really work on my balance.”
Tabi are also easier to clean than other shoes.
“You can throw these in the washing machine and wash them,” Tremblay says, clapping a hand on his tabi-clad foot. “They’re just kind of like really thick, convenient socks.”
There are also more durable, rubber-soled tabi called jika tabi, which ninjas use mostly for outdoor training. In Japan, this type of tabi is used by construction workers.
Wright says jika tabi are excellent for training on hardwood floors because they grip much better than cloth tabi. Jika tabi also make it easier for him to train with his problem knee.
“With a rubber sole, my foot doesn’t slip so I can really feel where the pressure is on my knee,” Wright says, gesturing to his left leg. “It allows me to have a lot more power and accuracy.”
Some moves can only be done wearing tabi.
Amon Kage, who’s been training in ninjutsu for three years but has only been at Kageyama for a week, says he wears tabi just for one type of strike.
“The only reason I actually use them is because of the toe kick,” Kage says. “That’s the only footwear you can effectively use [for the kick].”
This move is a kick with the big toe to any target on an opponent’s body, says Kage, a literature student at the University of Toronto. The split toe is what allows a ninja to pull it off.
When buying tabi, Wright says he wants ones that don’t bite between his toes but have a seam that fits tightly to his foot. He says he still needs some space in the toe area for movement, but not a lot.
“If there’s too much space . . . it doesn’t hold nicely and it’s like wearing a loose sock and you’re trying to move,” he says, running his hand along his new-looking navy tabi. “It’s just uncomfortable all the time.”
Both Wright and Tremblay say it’s best to buy directly from a supplier rather than the Internet. Tremblay finds it easiest to get his tabi directly from Japan, which he visits often.
He says they cost about $15 to$20 Canadian and the larger sizes are around $30 to$35 and last three to nine months before they wear out, depending on how often they’re used.
If you have to buy tabi over the Internet, asking questions is important to make sure you get the right type and best quality, the two ninjas say.
“Ask if they’re Velcro,” Wright says. “If they’re Velcro that’s usually the first sign that they’re not good tabi.”
High-quality tabi have metal tabs at the back that can be adjusted for a better fit.
While Tremblay wears tabi as often as he can, the navy blue ones for ninjutsu, the black jika tabi for outdoor training, and white ones for doing Japanese archery, he avoids wearing them in public. He wore a pair of rubber tabi similar to rain boots when he went out only once.
“I wore them one time on the subway and everybody noticed,” he says with a smile. “It’s totally not something that a ninja would actually wear because then everybody knows you’re a ninja, right?”
Nick Goodwin Watched Sesame Street as a Child - Photo: MorgueFile.com
By Nick Goodwin
I wonder if it’s strange that I relate my childhood to movies that I watched as a kid. Or children’s show such as Sesame Street. I guess it’s a good thing. I turned out to be polite, kind, respectful and considerate. Perhaps the creators of these shows had some of our best
interests in mind. It’s the least I could hope for.
I found it interesting the other day when I picked up a plastic bag full of carrots and read the side of the bag. There was an ingredients section listed on this bag of carrots and I wanted to know what
on earth could be added to a bag of carrots so I read in deeper. I was relieved to discover that the only ingredient listed was, of course, carrots. Kind of scary though, that so many of our foods are manmade. Some kids in the world might think that pasta trees or Cheerios plants exist somewhere in the galaxy. Assume not and count out no possibility, on both counts.
I’m 20 years old and at this point in life, the least I can do is try and set an example for people. To live by a code of respect and decency is the least I can do. Truly, it’s the least that all of us can do. Beyond making a living and feeding a family. Beyond politics and laws. People aren’t born to be hostile creatures. You don’t see us with fangs or claws. We weren’t given the tools to be predators. We were given the tools to consider.
We were given the privilege to be opinionated and to build our own stories. Each individual person with a story, a position, an opinion, an up bringing, and a direction.
Rachel Muenz Writes About Tobacco - Photo: MorgueFile.com
By: Rachel Muenz
Before I climbed to the third floor of the North Borden Building on Spadina, I thought tobacco was bad. But now I know that it can be good, depending on how you use it. Tobacco can help students like me get the confidence they need to make their dreams soar.
It is here at the University of Toronto’s First Nations House where I meet Grafton Antone, one of two Aboriginal elders there, to talk about the work he does with students at U of T. In exchange for that information, I must give him a tiny packet of tobacco wrapped in yellow cloth.
Antone explains tobacco is sacred in Aboriginal culture because it is how natives communicate with Creator, their supreme being, when they need guidance.
“The smoke carries our prayers up to Creator and Creator said, ‘if you want anything, just give me a call and here’s my telephone,’ says Antone, holding up a piece of dried tobacco and laughing. This is why elders are given tobacco in exchange for information and counselling. It’s a way of asking for help.
Students can also bring the elders other gifts. Antone shows me the large block of pink salt stone he got from a student earlier that day who told him it came from Pakistan. He turns it in his hands so I can see the hole in the top where a candle can be put inside and lit to make the stone glow.
Just like lighting the salt stone, Antone helps feed the fires of students’ dreams with his booming laugh and encouraging words so they can shine with success.
“I work with people’s dreams and make them happen,” says Antone, who’s been an elder at First Nations House since about the year 2000.
Antone shows me how he does this by asking students questions and learning what their dreams are. Knowing a bit more about students, he can then bounce ideas off them for how they can go about achieving those dreams.
“That’s where we build; we build on our relationship,” Antone says. “We build on our conversations and that’s what I do. I dialogue with you and in dialoguing with you I’m able to work with you.”
But there’s only so much Antone can do to help a student. Overall, the student needs to have a goal and has to want to achieve that goal in order for Antone to give them guidance.
“A bird needs to have a dream to fly,” he says.
Kathy Marsden agrees. She’s been the native counsellor at the Aboriginal Resource Centre at Georgian College in Barrie for the past 12 years.
“If they’re [the students] not internally motivated, nobody can motivate them to change,” Marsden says. “The support services are about empowering, helping them to work things through themselves, not doing things for them.”
Like Antone, Marsden also uses Aboriginal teachings to help native students at the college. Her main way of helping students is by using what she calls “the medicine wheel approach.”
The medicine wheel is another important symbol of most First Nations, though it differs from group to group. It is a wheel divided into four sections: red, black, white, and yellow. The wheel stands for many different things, but Marsden’s counselling methods focus on the four parts of the self the wheel symbolizes: spiritual, physical, emotional, and mental.
Marsden mostly deals with the emotional part in her counselling but she says the four areas overlap.
“If someone’s under emotional stress, it’s affecting them in all those other areas,” she says. “It’s affecting them mentally, so they can’t concentrate on their academics. It’s affecting them physically; oftentimes they can’t sleep, so I don’t just deal with the emotional part.”
Balance is the aim of Marsden’s approach. She has students fill out a medicine wheel chart to show which of the four areas they need to work on. Eating well and getting enough exercise are some of the things she might help a student with in the physical part, while self-confidence issues could be a part of both the emotional and spiritual sections of the wheel.
“Depending on how lengthy the sessions are we may just deal with one specific aspect,” Marsden says. “But that’s OK. If it helps them get on with their lives, then that’s great.”
Helping students with those emotional problems can be hard.
Antone says that every single student that comes to see him is a difficult case in its own way, but it’s especially hard when the student is angry. Surprisingly, to help students get past their anger, he eggs them on to make them angrier.
“Sometimes when people are angry, it sometimes requires you to get a little bit more angry ‘til you realize that maybe that’s not really the right thing,” he says. “They catch themselves, they calm down and then I’m able to talk to them and maybe bring them down the good path.” The good path can mean forgiving people and treating them better instead of being mad, Antone adds.
Marsden agrees that anger shouldn’t be ignored even though most people see it as a negative emotion.
“The way we look at it is, all our emotions are given to us by Creator so we have to honour all those emotions and it’s how we deal with them that counts,” she says.
Smudging ceremonies are also a way that elders and native counsellors might help students deal with stress and other problems.
In his tiny office at First Nations House with the window open a crack, Antone shows me how smudging is done.
He takes a large shell from a table at the back of the room and sprinkles some grey-white sage leaves into it. He lights them on fire and smoke begins to curl up to the ceiling. I sweep the smoke over myself with my hands three or four times as Antone says for me to do. It has a spicy sweet smell and, as Antone says, “it makes you want to start cooking turkey.”
Aboriginals believe everyone has an energy surrounding them. The smoke from the sage or other plants First Nations use in smudging, such as sweetgrass, works like a shower to wash away negative energy, Antone says.
“What it does is it works with the thinking. It’s good for people and it’s supposed to bring understanding and it’s supposed to clear your mind,” he says. “And in the clearing of the mind it gives a new space, a new time, a new beginning for you to be able to walk the future.”
I feel calmer after bathing myself in the sage smoke and wish I had known about smudging during my last set of assignments.
But smudging doesn’t work for everybody.
“You only get out of it what you put into it,” Antone says.
He adds that postsecondary education is a kind of smudging, because by gaining knowledge, the energy around people changes too.
Learning about the Aboriginal worldview helps students with their personal growth, says Dr. Cynthia Wesley-Esquimaux, an Aboriginal studies professor at the University of Toronto.
Unlike mainstream society, the native viewpoint focuses on the success of everyone as a group rather than the success of one person, Wesley-Esquimaux says.
“When it’s all about you and all you’re concerned about is getting to the top of the game, then you don’t care who you step on,” she says. “Whereas with the Aboriginal worldview it’s not like that, it’s not competitive, it’s about trying to help each other get to a good place.”
By thinking of helping other people instead of just themselves, students not only become better people, they also become part of a community, Wesley-Esquimaux adds. Because of this, they avoid the loneliness and homesickness students often experience when they first get to university or college. Taking part in native community activities like potlucks and feasts means that students gain the support of many people and aren’t left on their own to deal with the transition to university or college.
“They [the students] seem to enjoy the inclusive nature of it. They like being involved in putting together feasts and spending a lot of time with each other,” she says. “They like that part. They don’t feel so isolated.”
Marsden says this idea of community and getting students involved is important at Georgian College as well. Though her counselling services are just for native students, the Aboriginal Resource Centre, like First Nations House, also has events and activities for all students and they have an elder on campus who everyone can visit for help.
“We’re not exclusive, we’re inclusive and that’s a huge factor,” Marsden says.
Changing students’ ways of thinking either through seeing an elder or learning more about Aboriginal culture can help them overcome seemingly impossible challenges at school, Antone says.
“It is not impossible, it’s only the space that you’re sitting in or the environment that you’re engulfed in . . . if we move you over just that much,” he says, holding his hands about an inch apart, “All of a sudden you say, ‘Oh I can see it, I understand it now.”
With a bit of nudging, students see solutions to problems that they were blind to before.
Talking with students and hearing their stories is what Antone enjoys most about working at First Nations House.
“I like to listen to people and I hear their stories. That’s how I can get a story.”
But it also makes him happy when he sees students carrying on what he’s taught them by performing various First Nations ceremonies themselves.
Passing on knowledge is what he really seems to love.
“I changed you,” he says with a laugh. “I smudged you. You’re no longer the same person as you were when you came in here.
You now have an access to the Aboriginal understanding.”
It’s true.
When I first climbed to the third floor of the North Borden Building on Spadina, I was nervous and scared. I didn’t know what First Nations culture was, though I’d read a lot about it.
Now I know a little something, and as I walk away from First Nations House, up the dreary wet street, I’m happy and confident. I know more about who I am.
All because of a little bundle of tobacco wrapped in yellow cloth.
Nick Goodwin Enjoys Cottage Life - Photo: MorgueFile.com
By Nick Goodwin
Fishing is definitely one of my favourite things. I always look forward to the summer because I figure there is a good chance that I will find myself out in the wilderness at least once or twice. I love camping and also visiting cottages.
If I go camping with my family it is always a great time. We try to spend time together and play cards, sit by the fire and go for walks, maybe play catch or badminton. We usually have a few laughs and hang out like friends. When I was younger I definitely took advantage of hanging out with my family. Of course, as people get older relationships develop and form new dynamics.
I have loved fishing ever since the first time my Dad taught me how. It is not so much the thrill of the catch as it is the peace of mind. I don’t ever mind if nothing bites. I just love being near the lake and taking in the peace and quiet. Never mind the mosquito bites and sunburns.
When I am fishing I am in my element.
That’s one of the reasons I love skateboarding. When I have my music playing and I’m cruising I am definitely in my element. I live for the peace of mind and the comfort of joy.
I can recognize this focus in others. My mom reads her book with a side of cottage cheese and she is in her element. My dad hangs out in the backyard and he is in his element. My brother plays his guitar and he is in his element.
The point is, if you find yourself going back to an activity for the peace of mind and clarity then you have found your element. Cherish this privilege.
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By Alex Scott
With the passing of time all things change, some for better and some for worse. Not everything that is new is better, and sometimes we lose something tragic. The art of buying music has been all but lost, and it is rather sad to see it go. A visit to the music stores will quickly reveal the dying business, and the endless rows of movies, TV shows, figurines, novelettes, and other such crap they must sling to try and stay alive.
What have we lost? Sure it is much easier to download music these days, if you have enough virus protection and fight your way through the jungle of media available online. Or you can take the noble route and purchase your albums online for a small fee. But buying music online will never be the same as the real thing. What you lose is the essence of music, the indescribable feeling of looking through the work that so many artists have committed their lives to.
I took a trip to the music store recently, a trip down memory lane it seemed to be. It had been quite some time since I had bought a CD, but I was very excited. Maybe I am alone, but to me there is nothing that can replace the way it feels to buy a CD. I will gladly pay more just for the sheer experience. After all, when you compare the cost of a CD to many other things, it really doesn’t cost that much at all. A simple lunch at any burger joint or sandwich shop is over $10, and CD’s are now mostly under $15.
After looking through the racks of music I decided to purchase the Kings Of Leon – Only by the Night. I had only heard one song from them, as they were new to Canada at the time, but the unique vocal sound and the mix of rock and rhythm and soul immediately drew me into the sound. Now they have started tearing up the charts in Canada with 2 songs in the top 30 and you can hear them on the radio, but a small part of me feels like I can be proud that I “discovered” them on my own.
Just the act of buying a CD is exciting. To really hear music you have to commit yourself to it. You need to listen. When you are surfing music on limewire or the apple store you don’t get the same appreciation in 5 or 10 second clips. But when you leave the store and you have invested in the music, then you are truly ready to hear it.
Then you take the time to look over the artwork on the album cover, read the song listings, and when the moment is right you crack open the plastic. That familiar sound of scrunching plastic as you fight the casing, and then you crack open the case and you just can’t wait to pop it in. There is even that smell as you take the disc out, the smell of the printed leaflet that you would recognize anywhere. You almost hold your breath as you slide the disc into the CD player. You don’t know what it is going to be yet, you have no idea what is about to hit you, you are at the top of the rollercoaster just hovering and waiting for the rush to hit you.
As the first few bars of Only by the Night hit my ears I knew this was going to be a fun ride. The haunting melody trickles in slowly, and then the bass follows, and it starts to take a hold of you, and you are immediately, gently but firmly, taken to another place. The first track, Closer, is really one of the best tracks on the album, it sets the tone for the rest of the album perfectly, but it is extremely difficult to pick one favourite on the album. Closer is very slow and melodic, and it makes fantasy seem very real… the song doesn’t tell you where to go; it just lets you get away. The unique style allows you to hear and listen to the lyrics without losing focus on the music, you can read into the lyrics as much or as little as you want, it lets you do the interpreting.
The next track kicks it up a notch with Crawl, a heavier, dirtier sound. More distortion and more rock to it. It’s the kind of song that makes you want to sing out loud and pound the steering wheel with your fists and nod your head with the beat. It’s like the big twisting loop after the free fall you just took in the first track.
The third song is the song that hooked me on Kings of Leon, Sex on Fire. Sometimes you just know, the first time you hear a song, you just have to hear it again. The sound is just so unique and it just makes you feel something deep inside, something you can’t even put your finger on. You don’t know what it is, but everyone can relate to the feelings of longing, of wanting someone or something you just can’t have. Again this song isn’t so much about the lyrics, and certainly not about sex. Sure they are catchy and you will want to sing along, but the lyrics are masterfully in tune with the underlying feeling of the song. This is definitely one song that people will still be listening to ten years from now. From the opening reverberating riffs of the song right to the finish you don’t want this ride to end.
Use Somebody again takes another turn, mixing it up between a gentle beginning focused on the vocal styling of Caleb Followhill and building into a rocking rhythm, and then fading off the way it started. Manhattan is another melodic tune that will stay in your head for days. It is amazing how the album all blends together, each song so unique and different, yet maintaining the same flow and feeling of the whole album. After listening to the album a few times any one of the tracks on the CD can pop into my head at any time, they are all so powerful.
Track 6 is another favourite on the album – Revelry. It starts with pure vocals, slowly laying out the fabric from which the song is woven. “The time we shared it was precious to me, all along I was feeling the revelry.” Once again, Kings of Leon has an amazing ability to take simple lyrics and let the listener run with them, delicately wrapped in a blanket of sound. The vocals really are the highlight in this song, and they provide most of the melody with the guitar and drums playing a backup role.
I don’t even need to go into the rest of the album, suffice it to say that if you listen to the first half of the album, you will enjoy the second half just as much as you enjoyed the first half.
Unlike many albums, it does not fade into hastily composed filler tracks. Notion is another favourite track of mine, taking a more upbeat turn which makes you want to tap your feet to the beat. I Want You slows it down just a little bit again, with lots of soul and longing, and some very curious lyrics that stimulate your imagination.
The last track Cold Desert puts the finishing touches on a wonderful journey. It is the slowest song on the album, and is better for listening to before bed than during a workout, but it really feels like “the end” of the album. If you were listening to this album for the first time and didn’t look at the track listings at all, you would still know the end was near, as it gently fades off. But just as you think it is all over the track comes back for one last encore and finishes strong. It is the kind of finish to a song and the finish to an album that makes you sit in silence afterward, soaking it in, because there isn’t quite anything that can follow it, and the best act to follow it really is silence. That is the precise time and moment that you will know you have listened and heard something amazing, and you will never feel the same again.
There are maybe a dozen or so albums in my life that I have felt so strongly about as the Kings of Leon – Only by the Night, but I am certainly glad I made that trip to the music store. Even though it costs more the experience of music is invaluable to me, and I will always own that disc for the rest of my life to hear over and over again, to pull out of a dusty box 30 years from now and to play it again, to bring me back to this time and place in my life when I first heard it.
There is no doubt in my mind that I will be back at the music store soon… in fact I have my next album already picked out, I am waiting for the release of one of my favourite bands, a Canadian band that started under the name Big Wreck… that’s right, Thornley!
Kirk Verner Adds Poem Mute to His Repoitoire
by Kirk Verner
Timid lips finally spew jargon.
You have less of an accent than expected.
Racing eyes, rarely locking.
Your fear lies in direct eye-contact.
Crossed arms, your knuckles are white again.
You look like a librarian, neat and gentle.
Your wet palm leaves streaks across the shadows on the table.
A chill in the air shall calm you with time.
Shea Butter Market is the Brainchild of Gifty Serbeh-Dunn
I CALLED GIFTY SERBEH-DUNN AS SHE WAS FEEDING HER CAT. HER BOYS WALKED BY THE CAT WITHOUT FEEDING HER. HER BIG BOY IS HER HUSBAND WAYNE DUNN WHO HAS A BUSINESS DEGREE FROM STANFORD. HER SMALL 7-YEAR-OLD BOY IS HER SON KABORÉ. SERBEH-DUNN HAS MANY THINGS TO DO SUCH AS FEEDING HER CAT AND RUNNING A SUCCESSFUL BUSINESS SHEA BUTTER MARKET.
Four lovely women, a fifth one coming later, volunteered their time on a January afternoon in 1998 to sit down at Salon Utopia and chat about hair. Here are the details of their chat which will hopefully stimulate your own discussions.
LOCKS:
Naila (with locks): People ask me what is that…what you mean what is it…can you comb that out…I’ve had people from Jamaica asking me about my locks…what do you mean what is that?
Malene (with an afro): Have you forgotten what it’s like when you relax your hair?
Naila: I’ve had Jamaican men ask me if I could comb it out – that’s psycho! Dreadlocks started in Jamaica, well like Rastafarianism started in Jamaica. They know about Rastas, and they should know about locks, and they should know that you can’t comb out locks, because you’re hair is locked.
(Laughter)
Frank (with locks): It’s down to about here (middle of back) so when I’m on the bus, it falls over on the seat, and they pull it. They want to know if it’s extensions, if it’s real. They want to feel how it feels. I don’t know about you, but my dreads are clean, and I don’t want your grubby paws on me.
REAL HAIR, FAKE HAIR, BLACK WOMEN:
Hirut (long curly hair that is hers): I get that from people too, is it real. I get that from Black people and White people too. It’s my hair. I don’t go around asking people if I can touch your hair.
Malene: Touch your ass, touch your balls, it’s the same kind of thing. I don’t know about you but for me this (indicating head) is a very sensitive area.
Frank: It’s your face.
Hirut: Also, people identify me with my hair.
Frankie: Also, they look at you and they say she’s a Black woman, Black people only come in these particular hues, and this particular kind of hair, it’s really static.
Malene: They can’t have long hair.
Frank: Right, that’s the conception. You can only be one kind of Black woman. It’s only this kind of hair, this kind of texture.
PERSONAL HAIR HISTORIES:
Frank: My hair history…I’ve been a dread for about 3,4 years. Before that I just had normal regular my hair, no chemicals, no anything. I just got to a point where I got lazy. I didn’t want to comb it, I didn’t want to coif it, I didn’t want to spend the half an hour to an hour to make myself look presentable. I said to hell with it, I’m going to do it, I’m just going to let my hair dread.
Hirut: My hair has pretty much been the way it is right now for all of my life. The first time I really cut it in Canada was about 10 years ago. My Mom flipped. I wanted to cut my bangs. Bangs from hell. I didn’t cut it for quite a long time, but then again it was so hard to handle. Very frustrating. I don’t comb my hair; I comb it when I wash it once a week.
Malene: I first cut my hair when I was around 15 or 14. Before then, I was just using the pressing comb, doing that ghetto styles with my hair.
Hirut: I used to use the iron for my hair. My sister used to iron my hair for me. That makes it really straight.
Malene: I just used the comb, and I heard the sizzle. I was turning 15 and for my 15th birthday I was going to a salon and they cut it all off, and I was traumatized for about 2 months. But then I befriended my hair stylist, they also damaged it and I was going every week because they let me have free appointments until it gets better. It was terrible because I was there every week until I was 19 and a half. Every week…four years. After a while, they’d use me occasionally for a model, I was in the salon all the time, and one time I was there for 9 hours.
Frankie: What were you doing there for 9 hours?
Malene: I’d be waiting, then they’d condition it, and then I’d be waiting, then it would dry, and I’d be waiting for them to do what they had to do. I relaxed it, so they would be blow-drying it straight, sometimes styling it, colouring it. After awhile I got frustrated wasting 8 hours a week, solely on my hair. I ended up having to buy lots of products. Black products…the good ones are really expensive and I was thinking I could be doing so much with this money. I could be buying a new pair of shoes, or books, something. And I also got into a fight with these guys. The relationship ended up being…they weren’t just my hairstylist, they were like my gurus in a way. I became debilitated in a way.
Frank: Because of your hair…what a statement.
Malene: It’s true. Many Black women don’t know how to handle their hair and so these guys do and they would do such a good job with it that I didn’t do anything with it, I just let them do everything.
Hirut: I’ve been 3 times to a stylist. All they would do is straighten it. This is a chance for them to do something creative, and they didn’t, and I’m paying them.
Malene: They did really amazing hairstyles. Every week I had a new hairstyle, so the novelty wore off. I felt kind of off, I just wanted to stabilize myself, so I shaved my head. I was cutting my ties big time. I stopped talking to them. Going to the salon, spending 8 hours talking about hair, fashion, this, that, all these superficial things. I would sometimes have deep conversations with people, but I just didn’t like who I was. So, shaved my head, and for the past 2 years, it’s been like an afro. Every time it would start dreading out, I would cut it. But now I’m ready to go full dread, I’m just too lazy to actually do it. It’s so easy because now all I do is wash my hair, towel dry it, and then I’m out the door, pick it, and that’s it.
Naila: I went through the same pressing comb stuff when I was about twelve. It was kind of like a rite of passage, because when I was about twelve years old, all the women in my family, well my sister was getting her hair permed, and I was turning twelve, so it was my turn to get my hair permed. But my Mom had to wait until she was much older to get her hair permed. But she didn’t really have a big issue with it, because I always used to get it pressed, but since it got humid (laugh) it was over. You’d go to school with this great style, these nice ponytails, and then it would rain. Then you’d walk home with an afro. So I got it permed. I remember being very concerned about getting my hair permed, why am I getting my hair permed. Everybody said it would be more manageable. It’s a very odd idea that taking your hair away from it’s natural state it can make it more manageable.
Malene: We’ve never learned to manage our hair, they’ve never taught us that. It’s also learning to work with the naps.
Frank: We have been taught…if you came from the West Indies, you have been taught to manage your hair. You braid it, you cainrow it, you do wonderful things with it. But they’re Black things. It’s not the carefree White hair hanging down blowing in the wind. It’s something different, but we want to get away from the cainrow and the beads.
Hirut: On Friday nights I don’t go out, I do my hair. If I don’t do it on Friday, I have like really bad hair for 2 weeks, because the schedule is all screwed up.
Naila: Yeah, so I got my hair permed. And I did the gel and the side parts and the buns and the bobs, and I had the curl and I had the styles and what not. And I had a really bad experience getting my hair permed because the next day there was blood on my scalp because the woman was having a conversation with someone while doing my hair. There were chunks of blood on my scalp. My scalp was just covered with blood, it was completely damaged. It was the first time I had gone to the salon on my own. Because Saturday, my Mom and sister and I, we’d go to the salon, there all day watching soap operas and listening to the salon talk. We’d go about once a month, but always on a Saturday. Then I was like no, this is not happening, so I cut it off. And I remember the guy in the salon was like, are you sure you want to cut it. I said sure, I want to cut it. He said if you cut it, you’re not going to have any hair. He only cut it in a bob and asked do you want it lower, and I said, cut off my hair, keep on cutting until there’s no more perm. He gave me this box cut hair, and people were insinuating afterwards that I was a Lesbian. What do you mean a Lesbian? If you have short hair. Then I had to go to a real barber to get it done right, with the fade, and then I was in business. And that was a real trauma for my family.
Malene: Well, that’s another issue when cutting your hair. You’re so-called sexuality and your family or whatever. It’s like you’re sexless if you cut your hair.
Frank: My Mom always says, a woman’s hair is her crowning glory.
Malene: I was just thinking with the scabs on my scalp, I went through relaxers in my eye. Like he dropped relaxer in my eye. And it still has damage here a little bit. And you go back, and you say I’ll forgive you for that. And the burns on the back of the neck.
Frank: It’s torture.
Malene: Yes, it’s to keep that womanly look. To have that bone straight look and have my hair on my shoulders and have it swing and bounce.
Frank: Womanly, that’s a touchy issue. Because you’re still womanly with a short cut.
Hirut: We understand that now.
Malene: It’s also when you’re 16, 17 years old…you can’t be telling that to someone that age. That was my high drama.
Naila: That was really cool. For 2 something years I had it natural. My Mom and I got back into that mother-child, like daughter relationship, because she would do my hair for me again. And she hadn’t done my hair since I was 8, or 9, or 10. And I would be getting the China bumps again and I learned to braid my own hair. And I would have this huge afro that I would just blow out and mind you this wasn’t the 80s, it was like ‘94, and I was just like I don’t care. The guys too that I knew, were like T-Boz (from TLC) has a great cut, Left-Eye (from TLC) has a great cut. You could do that to your hair. You could do what whatever’s doing. And I was like, no, no, I’m happy. Then I went away and I came back, and I was stuck, I have to wash my hair. I don’t have 3 hours to wash my hair, then oil it, then China bump it. And I was like Gail, my sister, perm it. And she was like are you crazy. And I was like perm my hair, I just did not have 3 hours to perm my hair. So just 2 hours later, I just threw it all away, I just didn’t want to go through the whole thing of doing it. It just wasn’t me, it just didn’t look like me. So I cut it off again.
Hirut: You know what, when I cut off my hair it was in the summer, it was during exam time. My hair needed to be washed, and I hadn’t washed it. I was like, I have to cut my hair. I went home and I just cut my hair. I didn’t even comb it out because that would take time. Then I washed it, and it felt so good. The amount of shampoo it took to wash it was like half. And I got out of the shower and it took half the time. It was just very nice. It was very liberating having half the hair to take care of. It was the whole thing that I don’t have time to wash it, comb it, and then style it. I’ve got other things going on in my life.
THE CHEMICAL-USING SALON EXPERIENCE:
Frank: I never understood that, you’d see these women go into the salon and they’d have this nice coif, and then the next day you’d see them in a ponytail.
Malene: That’s because they slept on it wrong. They didn’t prop the pillows up properly.
Naila: They didn’t have the correct satin head wraps. (Laughs)
Frank: All that trouble to perm your hair, to relax your hair, and you go through the burning, and the scalp, and the eyes, and the money, but to put it in a pony tail.
Naila: But when you’re hair is straight, you have the ponytail option. When you have a big afro, there is no ponytail.
Frank: My experience is so different from yours. I’ve been to a salon once in my life, and that was to cut off my dreads. That was all I wanted from them. My hair wouldn’t do an afro. I would die for an afro, I would wish for an afro. It would do this; it would be flat on the top. And I’d tease it, tease it, tease it some more. I would try to get it to pouf, and just look at it, just limp. I braided my hair. I spent 10 hours braiding my hair; I wanted that so much, I didn’t want the other stuff. I wanted it to stay, because it would unravel so much. It wasn’t torture for me to deal with my hair. I liked going through those rituals.
Hirut: For me, it’s like I identified with my hair. For me to cut my hair, I’m like scared. I want to cut it short, short, short. My sister’s hair was to her waist, but recently, she’s like almost bald.
Naila: The other thing is that you can’t wash your hair before it’s going to be permed, you can’t wash your scalp. Because when that lye hits your pores and you scratch it, you’ll be bawling. I’ve seen women in the salons with tears running down their eyes, but they’re not washing out the perm for anybody, because they have roots, and they want the roots to be gone. They will stand and they will sit there and take it. They will take it, they will take it, take it, take it.
Malene: The good salons know that they would never put it down to the base of your scalp. They’ll never put the actual relaxer on your scalp.
Naila: But that’s what people want.
Malene: But the real salons, they won’t do it, because they know that if they put it there, you can end up losing all the skin in that area, and all the hair there too.
Naila: What this is, it’s just such a denial of how you come to this earth. There’s one thing if you’re doing it as a style and you’re relaxing your hair because you want a certain hairstyle. But when you believe that’s the only way you can wear your hair. If you sincerely believe that your hair can only be worn in the way other than how it naturally wants to be, then I just don’t understand.
GETTING DOWN TO THE ROOTS OF THE MATTER:
Malene: What I find funny is that those women who believe this is my hair, and the extension. I laugh when people come up to me and they ask, how do you do that. I laugh and I say don’t you remember, this is what happens when you don’t relax your hair.(Laughter) I do have odd hair in a way, the way it’s such a tight curl. And people come up to me and ask, how can I get that? You stop relaxing and you’ll get it.
Naila: I can’t get my hair to look like that. And that’s the thing about Black people, because the way my hair takes a perm, to how my sister takes a perm, and my Mom is all different, and we’re all in the same bloodline. My Mom can perm her hair all year long, but she will still when she wets it, have a wave. My hair is dead straight. So we all have our own, yes we’re all women, but we all have a completely different hair texture. And I have like 8 hair textures in my hair.
Malene: We’re willing to deal with our hair textures. Many people are just like, put it in extensions, put a weave on it.
Hirut: It’s all about pride, and being creative. I do different things, I don’t get bored. It’s not somebody else who’s doing my hair for me, I’m doing it myself. And I’m not burning myself, there’s nothing destroying my brain.
Frank: There’s a difference between perming your hair and doing styles with that hair. I used to think that women who went and permed their hair wanted the white hair, and then when they went and curled it, they wanted the curly version of the white hair. I thought it was crazy. But then I realized, if it’s about style, press the hair, it can go back to its natural state. If it’s about style and variety, then why not do that instead of permanently altering the chemical make-up of your hair.
Malene: There’s that whole notion that you don’t look beautiful with natural hair, and running your fingers through it. It’s not happening, breaking nails. How many combs have I broken, how many teeth are missing from my comb.
Naila: There is no running hands through hair, that’s just a crazy lie.
[Judy, with locks, comes and joins the group]
Hirut: My hair breaks my nails. If I attempt to put my hands in it (laughs).
Malene: I have no desire to have my hands running through my hair. I like it the way it is.
Naila: Now I enjoy taking care of my hair.
Malene: Giving yourself massages…
Naila: Yeah, now it’s an enjoyable experience. Yeah, it’s nice.
ANOTHER PERSONAL HAIR HISTORY:
Judy: My name’s Judy and I’ve had my hair like this for the past six years. I had my hair in dreadlocks since I graduated from film school in Calgary. I decided I was going to go and do it because there weren’t very many Black people in Calgary. I felt like I was kind of disappearing. So I felt like I had to go and do something about it, and I did. I walked into a Black hairdressing salon and I asked the woman how can I get dreadlocks. And she said, just don’t comb your hair. That’s it, yup, don’t comb your hair. Another friend of mine told me that you can help your dreads along if you twist a bit after you wash your hair. And I really enjoy this hairstyle the most after I’ve had a lot of things. I’ve had the braids, the weave, Jherri Curls, remember those…
(Laughter and comments)
I’ve tried them all. I think I have sort of a sensitive scalp too. I don’t like anything pulling on my scalp, so dreads have really been great for me. It’s a really low maintenance hairstyle, so if I have to work really long hours I don’t have to worry too much about anything. Definitely it’s a look for a woman of the 90s. However, we’re living in a White society, it’s a bit difficult, sometimes I think the way people perceive you. They see the image of a gangster when you have dreadlocks on. I’ve had a lot of different reactions. It’s either people really like you, and they want to come up and talk to you because they assume you’re counter-culture and they want to talk to you. Or, I’ve had like little ladies cringing, things like that. But it’s been very good. A lot of Black people come up and talk to me now, they feel more comfortable talking to me.
LOCKS IDENTIFY:
Frank: Do you feel you know every dread in Montreal? I feel like I know every dread in Montreal. You walk up to them and you do a head nod.
Judy: Yeah, that’s right.
Frank: I love that, I really love that. You get that kind of shock, with anybody?
SHE WORKS HARD FOR THE MONEY:
Judy: Usually, it depends on the age. I find that with young people, they’re cool with it. Some people, some older people, not all people, have a harder time with it. It depends on what you do for a living. I could not have my hair like this if I worked at the Bank of Montreal, or something like that.
Frank: But you could, that’s the funny thing.
Malene: I worked with about 6 Black women at the Bank of Montreal. And all of them looked at me funny because they were like you just don’t look neat, you don’t look finished, professional enough to be presenting presentations. They just have this mind set that if you relax your hair you have a more polished look, and no matter how polished I look, I still look a little bit rustic, not rusty.
Frank: It’s true. I beg to differ somehow. I’ve seen dreads in a lot of places they should be. I go into big companies with big head honchos and I go in there with my hair waving around and you have to listen to me, you have to listen to my mouth. I know as soon as I turn my back they are thinking all kinds of things.
Hirut: Are you sure that it’s not because you’re a Black woman with dreads. I’m sure if you were a Black man, you probably wouldn’t be able to come into the office.
Frank: But there’s a big difference in the way of the confidence level. I don’t want to be a natty dread, I’m not a Rasta, there’s a big difference between me being a Rasta and a dread. I aspire to be a Rasta, but I’m not. Neatness does matter to me, I don’t want nasty looking hair, so that comes into it. I’ve never had that problem, but if I had, I guess I didn’t approach it that way, or see it.
Naila: I think that people always think about how White people the quote unquote corporate North America will view it. But I don’t think White people know enough about Black hair to know the difference from locks, from braids. (Laughter) Sincerely, what I think is because I know that when I started locking my hair, my grandmother sat me down and spoke to me about it and told me her concerns. Because she was saying that in Jamaica if you’re hair is locked, that means that you’re a Rastafarian, they don’t have dread and Rasta. When I went to Jamaica, that meant I was a Rasta. That week I was there, I was a Rasta. I was like no, I’m a dread. They were like no, if you’re hair is locked, you’re a Rasta. I’m like okay. But here there is a distinction. She sat me down and she said how people are going to view you from our country and our culture is that you are a Rastafarian and with that you have a lot of negative connotations. But I don’t think that a lot of North American White people know about Rastafarians.
Frank: They know Bob Marley, and Peter Tosh, and all of those people.
Naila: I wouldn’t even go as far as Peter Tosh, it might be Bob Marley (Laughter). But the thing is, they just see it as another style that we have.
Frank: But they’ve adopted that style too.
Naila: But they don’t have the same connotations that Black people have of dreadlocks. So I don’t know if it really matters that much if you’re in a bank with dreads, or extensions, or a weave, or a perm. You know, because they don’t have the distinctions. Whereas a Black person that walks into a bank, will notice the difference between a perm, braids or locks. And they’ll probably treat you differently between a perm, braids and locks.
BLACK MEN AND HAIR:
Frank: You said something I think is quite poignant. Because if I were a man, that whole set up between a man and me, a Black man in White society is completely different. They’re scared of Black men period, and a dreaded Black man…oh God, they’re going to come and shoot the place up. So maybe I wouldn’t be able to do that.
Hirut: Already a man with long hair is not acceptable, so like Black, dread, and long hair…it’s just not kosher. (Laughter).
A HAIR WRAP:
Hirut: Hair wraps though, I started using them recently. The first time I started using them I felt odd, like everyone was staring at me. But it comes in much handy, when I don’t comb my hair, when I have like a bad hair day, it’s this miracle, I just wrap my hair…
Malene: It also shows your face more, and when people wrap their hair it’s just beautiful because you get to see just them.
SHE IS STILL WORKING HARD FOR THE MONEY-MORE THAN 9 TO 5:
Judy: I have a question for the dreads? Have you guys noticed if you’re treated differently before you had dreads and now you have dreads when you go out on the job hunt?
Frank: No, it’s pretty much been the same thing. Talk to them on the phone, and then you show up and it’s like…(her mouth drops). I tend to try to tie my hair back when I go, the first time, so it’s not so noticeable. You don’t want that to be the first image they see. There is a difference, I have to talk my way around it more.
Hirut: Are you sitting at the interview thinking are they looking at my hair, are they thinking about my hair?
Frank: I really try to make my hair as inconspicuous as possible, so it’s not the first thing they see. I know that the minute I see a little thing sticking out, I have to do some fast talking, or they’re not going to bite. Because the connotation is there, if you are a dread, you’re smoking up, you know, that’s what you’re doing, you’re not doing anything constructive. I think from the Whites that I know that have adopted a dreadlock hairstyle, they know a bit, but not as much as a West Indian, or an African would know, but they know more about it. The older ones, I don’t think they have a clue.
Judy: Unfortunately it’s not the hip ones who are working in human resources. (Laughter)
Malene: Have you had problems when you would go out on the job hunt?
Judy: I think being Black is enough of a shock usually. And the fact that I’m a woman as a camera operator in film and video, I’m already out on the edge, so. I don’t really think that makes too much of a difference, but I think it would make more of a difference if I was looking for a job in an office, or working at Jean Coutu in a pharmacy. I think it would be something different.
Frank: That’s true, I haven’t really seen a lot of dreads working in cosmetics and things like that.
Naila: I really haven’t had any problems with it, because I don’t have a problem with it. I just feel like it’s not an issue for me. It’s not an issue for me. But then the work I’ve been pursuing is on a part-time basis, I am still in school. But I plan to work in broadcast TV. But I will be on TV, and I will be reading the news, and people will be, but what is this, but that’s how life go. And it comes from too many years of watching TV and not seeing anybody that looked like anybody I knew, like close in my family. So, for me it’s not an issue, and that’s a lot of reasons why my family counselled me against it.
Frank: You just put your best foot forward when you go. You don’t have one sticking out like this (hand in the hair).
Naila: That’s how I look in the morning. (Laughter)
WHITE PEOPLE AND LOCKS:
Hirut: White people that you come across with dreads, do they identify with you. Do they act like they can identify with the Black cause because they have dreads?
Frank: I know they try.
Judy: Out west it’s different. When I was out west I was like what is with all these white people, blond people with dreadlocks. For them, it’s like the hippie thing, the Sinead O’Connor look, it’s like all that kind of gang that are in it. It’s like they’ve distanced themselves from the Black experience.
Naila: You know that in 5 years, they are going to be like clean-shaven…
Malene: Not even 5 years.
Naila: I know for me what I’ve found with my hair that you’re forever teaching. It’s like you’re forever teaching all the time. Can I touch it? It’s not a petting zoo. I have to tell people you can’t come behind and touch my hair.
Frank: You should charge them. (Laughter)
Naila: The most recent experience was when a man came up to me and he said, I don’t know if I should say this but you look like Medusa with you hair, I said see, you and me have to talk. It is an issue, you know. It is an issue. But the more of us out there that are just going on with our lives…
Frank: I don’t explain my hair to anybody, not even my mother.
NOTION OF PASSING AND HAIR:
Judy: My mother is really status quo. She said, if you ever want to change your hairstyle, I’ll pay for the hairdresser. The question I think of trying to assimilate, you live in a White culture, you should try and assimilate.
Frank: To pass as much as possible. No, I don’t explain my hair to anybody. If a Black person asks me, I say just leave it alone, don’t play with it, that’s different. But I’m not explaining my hair to…no, I’m not doing it. You don’t explain your hair and your hair rituals to me in the morning, I don’t want to know. So why should I explain mine to you.
HAIR EDUCATION:
Naila: I see it differently. Most Black people can’t wash their hair everyday, no. It becomes tedious, but this is like an opportunity for them to know. Maybe it’s not my job.
Frank: I can’t explain for every Black woman, I can only explain for me. And I don’t.
Judy: There was a dreadlock in Calgary and I went up and talked to him and he said, mother nature, that was his explanation. (Laughter)
Frank: I like that.
Naila: People would get into big discussions with me about why I locked my hair, and finally I just said, who feels it knows it, as Bob says in his songs. And that’s it.
OTHER CULTURES AND HAIR:
Naila: The thing that’s weird…do other people do this stuff. With Black people there is such a cultural and political culture that you’re hair is in. It’s never just a style. I know some guys who will only check for those who have natural hair, and some guys will not check a woman who has her hair natural. I don’t see other cultures or races having to do that.
Frank: Sure they do, it’s just different.
Malene: It might be the actual colour of their hair.
Naila: But it’s not a political statement.
Frank: Please, go to Japan. We have to deal with hair, we have to deal with body type, we have to deal with skin colour, we have to deal with a whole lot of things that are not of the White people. But then you have Asian people, there are a whole set of different imperatives that they have to deal with. So you’ll have Chinese women going in to put in a bone so they’re eyes are not like that, and blonding, it’s insanity, whatever you do to make you more White. There are Indians who will not marry anybody close to our colour. They’re Indians, but no, no, no, you’re too black.
Hirut: I watch a lot of Japanese animation, and even the hair colour is blond, they’re very White looking.
Naila: I’m not worried about them. As Black people, we don’t have a unifying language, we don’t have a unifying religion, because the religion many of us have was put onto us, we don’t have a unifying culture, so I’m just more concerned.
Frank: But I think it’s all moving that way though, it’s moving towards whitisizing everything. So Japanese people have Japan but not for always. There are Chinese in Trinidad that don’t associate themselves with Chinese. You tell them they’re Chinese and they go what, I’m Trini, don’t talk to me, they don’t speak no Chinese. They’re Indian people in Trinidad that go India, they tell you do I look Indian to you, you go yes, I’m a Trini. It’s different, it’s changing, we’ve been displaced a lot longer, but we can’t go back, like you just said. We have to accept that you’re different, and you’re different, and we’re all different, there’s a diaspora, but it doesn’t mean Blackland is here. We can still be unified. We can’t go back, but we’re here.
Hope you enjoyed the salon talk. You can lengthen the discussion in the Salon Utopia community.
Nov. 6 presented a rare opportunity for five black women professionals to share their personal experiences, success strategies and encouragement with Carleton’s black community.
“It’s good to see someone there in the image of yourself succeeding,” said Kathy Wilkinson, a member of Perspectives.
The Canadian Hispanic Day Parade (CHDP) is run by a non-profit organization created to share with all Canadians and new immigrants, Latin language, food, culture, and sense of celebration. Their main objective is to promote the cultural heritage of the Latin American people residing in Canada. On Sunday August 21st, 2005, the CHDP, held their 5th Annual Canadian Hispanic Day Parade beginning at the Jane and Sheppard Mall and ending at the John Booth Arena located at Jane and Shoreham.
My first hobby was playing hairdresser to my Barbie dolls. I had my childhood in the 1970s and 1980s but I was not much different from Black children in the 1940s who chose White dolls over Black dolls in a landmark study that lead to the desegregation of American schools.
Seeing ourselves in the media has long been a long fight among African Canadians and advertisers. Back in the 1990s, it was rare to see a black person on TV with a cell phone or advertising makeup; it was rare to hear the unique voice of the Caribbean in plays and on the radio and it was hard to find positive photographs of ourselves in the newspapers or magazines.
Business People Gather at the Guyanese Luncheon
The links between Guyana and Canada for business were strengthened on Friday, June 24th at a luncheon held at the Elite Banquet Hall.
Design is such a fascinating field of study and it can be hard to find the best school to study at. Here is a list of the 10 most popular design programs in Canada. There are actually a few more than 10 because it was so difficult to narrow the list down to just 10.
Within the past five years, there have been 7,000 to 8,000 babies born to Taiwanese girls between the ages of 15 to 19 years old.
Sitting on a couch in her living room, 10-year-old Michelle Lucien points to a bruise on her left ankle. Her crutches sit in a corner of the room.
Kim Heang Kinsey is the winner of the 22nd annual Literary Achievement Award in Wells-Ogunquit Community School District. She won for an essay called “Charity in Cambodia.”
Gloria Jones. Photo by Donna Kakonge
Gloria Jones, vice-president of cash management services at the BMO Nesbitt Burns doesn’t know why it was that easy. The position she came into about 30 years ago was a junior clerical position. She worked there for a little while and then went off and had some babies.
Many companies do not feel it necessary to create advertising aimed specifically at Black communities. Sometimes Trevor Campbell, president of Porter Novelli, is asked in his public relations practice whether he has experience in ethnic media outreach? He says it is hard to measure the media that reaches ethnic communities.
The proof of their success is in the runner-up of The Apprentice. Kwame Jackson is a graduate of the Inroads program. He did internships every summer while he was in school to learn his expert corporate skills.
Juno-nominated Jully Black kicked off the presence of the African-Canadian women performing at the Toronto Street Festival on July 8th to 10th. Black rocked the big crowd at Yonge & Dundas with jazzy R&B sounds.
Many people enjoy accenting their décor with accessories and furniture pieces that reflect their cultural heritage. An Inusktut from Aboriginal culture, a painting of a Spanish village or a bonsai plant from Japanese culture can be reflected in a home by people of that culture and also by people not directly from that culture.
This story explores expanding the kinds of street meat you can have in Toronto. In a talk tape done with Marc Montgomery with Radio Canada International, I interview different people to discuss adding such foods as Asian cuisine to the streets of Toronto. Have a listen and enjoy.
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Yellowknife is a well-kept Canadian secret.
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Anne-Marie Woods started Imani Enterprises in 1994. The company started by focusing on youth arts and culture in Nova Scotia.
Franceen (not her real name) is a former crack addict and has been clean for three years. She has been living in Toronto for seven years and been convicted of four drug trafficking charges.
African beauty displayed in this statue
As the end of the year draws near and the death of former President of Uganda, Milton Obote passes, it brings back memories. Memories of a life I was meant to live in my Dad’s home country and all the loved ones lost in the wars which have ravaged Uganda.
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Ishita Pacholi lives in Mumbai. In a conversation with Donna Kakonge who has been a friend of hers for many years, she shares her present situation in the city under fire through an MSN Chat.
More than 10 people came out to participate as volunteers for a conference being held by the American Community Gardening Association (ACGA). The conference is called Gardens of Diversity.
The Canadian dollar is strong, but the American one is still stronger. If you’re on vacation in Toronto, there are many places to eat extremely cheap in some neighbourhoods that seem scary to many Torontonians, but many Americans may not even blink an eye.
September is the biggest tourist time in Toronto and if you’re headed this way, there are many cultural things to do for free.
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On my way to drop off a rented car…there was a protest on Bloor Street. Watch to see.
5th Annual Disability Pride Celebration in Toronto
TORONTO — To mark the 5th annual disability pride celebration in Toronto,
Simply People: Celebrating Our Lives & Identities, hundreds will gather at
Nathan Phillips Square on July 22 from 5:30PM to 9:00PM. This free outdoor
event is open for all to attend (rain or shine) and the guest speakers will
include the Honourable David C. Onley, Lieutenant Governor of Ontario,
Toronto Mayor David Miller and Toronto City Councillor Adrian Heaps.
You can find the audio version of this story on my e-store
In the early 1980’s, when I was 10 years old, things changed at my school with the arrival of a new vice-principal. At O’Connor Public School in Toronto, Mr. Goldberg set up a close-circuit television studio. The show the students and Mr. Goldberg produced was called OCTV News.
Filmmaker Mikel Guillen is in production of a new project called “Music to My Ears.” It is being shot in Toronto. The film is in French and Guillen and I sat outside a marché to find out more about his film.
Writing really is a wonderful thing. I would recommend for anyone to do it if this is what they want to do. I also do some radio when I have the chance and I am looking to either borrow a digital recorder from one of the places where I work so I can work on a private project or save up enough money for one. I have a mini-disc, which used to be the industry standard – however, everything is going digital Read the rest of this entry »
Happening on Friday, April 18th…join the cause of Project Hope.
Gay tourism is like any other tourism – it is enjoyable. Follow along in this radio story as you find out about gay history in Montreal. The story was originally aired on Radio Canada International.
Black people have been a part of Canadian history since the creation of the country. Educate yourself with this radio story originally airing with the Canadian Broadcasting Corporation.
Find out that many people have different views on what the real story is behind the third eye. The radio story originally aired with Radio Canada International. If you like this story, you would also like my book, eSpirituality Chats that can bought at: http://stores.lulu.com/kakonged.
Here is a commentary radio piece that aired with the Canadian Broadcasting Corporation. To find out more about this topic, you can also visit my website where a book is on this topic at: http://stores.lulu.com/kakonged.
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Have you ever seen a black female taxi driver? I was a virgin to this and saw one and could not help but capture it on video.
This is the Spain where it is easy to play Red Rover on the beach, but hard not to shop. This is the country of siesta, cheap shoes and sangria that flows like a river. You must order your water like this: “aqua sin gaz,” which means still water. But this country is not still. Everything moves, and it moves to the rhythm of a Spanish guitar as you dance the night away meeting Spaniards and Brits who have had too much beer.
Her terrific book, Stay Black or Die has just been accepted by many professors throughout Canada as reading material for courses. It is available through Commodore Books.
Pathways to Education
Regent Park is the oldest and largest public housing project in Canada. The average income is $18,000 per year, 50 per cent that of other Canadians. Over 80 per cent of residents are immigrants, many of who hold professional training diplomas, degrees and certificates from other countries that are not recognized in Canada. Englis is a second language for nearly 60 per cent of Regent Park adults and the region ahs twice the number of single parent families as the rest of Toronto. To top it off, there are no high schools in the community. It is no surprise that prior to Pathways the drop out rates was 56 per cent, twice Toronto’s average.
“The blacker the berry/The sweeter the juice/But if you get too black/It ain’t no use.”
Kay McConney: leaving for other opportunities
Published in Pride Newsmagazine – June 29, 2005
By Donna Kay Kakonge
Kay McConney, the Consul General of Barbados, is leaving her post for other opportunities at the end of July. She has been the longest-running Consul General the consulate has ever had, beginning her diplomatic assignment on May 3rd, 1998.
they are all winners but one takes prize
BURLA Awards Recognize Youth
Published December 15, 2006 in Share Newspaper
The 2nd annual BURLA awards at Burke’s Books and Picture Framing highlighted three young women for the first time last week, but in the end only one took home the prize. Crystal Hosannah of Oakwood Collegiate won for her essay on literature that was inspired by her Mom.
Powerful Pics
He’s 29…he wears T-shirts about trucking companies and jackets about old diners called Dickie’s. He’s also an artist and an IT guru exhibiting at the Guerrilla Gallery on College Street.
You can buy My Roxanne on my e-store
One of the books I will publish for 2008 was written when I was 17 years old. I spent a lot of my youth reading Danielle Steele, Sweet Valley High books and Stephen King. I also spent a lot of time while I was in English class writing and reading classic literature. MyRoxanne is a culmination of many years of work and expresses some of the dis-ease I felt at that time.
Chapter One
Roxanne has always been attracted to white men. There, she admits it. Maybe it came from watching all those movies and television shows when she was younger, where the good-looking men were always white. But, she does remember being fascinated with the show Fame and thinking Leroy was very sexy. And she does think black men are sexy. But, there’s something about them she has never been able to achieve, and that’s love. Life is hard for black men. And life for black women is even harder. She has never been able to find a black man who compared to her father. That’s why she always fell for the white ones.
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